Here is an answer you probably don't want to hear, but PLEASE make sure you want another baby, NOT just your DG. This is easy to say, I know. When people said that to me last summer (and yes, both my mum and my DH said this to me) I said 'yes, ofcourse, I would love either a boy or a girl! But in my head I was thinking, 'well you got it all wrong, this just has to be my girl'. Anyway, since the birth of DS2 I have been spending so much time on the internett doing research on swaying (for years almost, mostly because DH didn't want a third child). So when he finally gave in before last summer I had my plan ready and startet dieting for three months, hard core dieting 6 weeks, tracking my cycle, PH, seriously I was obsessed! When we finally started BD-ing I was so ready! Hot showers, DH on a diet, positions etc. We ended opp with a 4 days cut off. I got pregnant and was convinced I was pg with a girl. Well you can probably guess the rest of the story, she turned out to be a he. So first I have been obsessing about getting my DD and researching on swaying for about 3 years, than obsessing for another 6 mnth getting ready, than another 4 months during my pg going through my sway in my head obsessed wondering if I'm pg with a DD and now I'm sort of obsessed, just working hard in my head accepting the fact that I'm having another DS.Yes, what a waist! And 80% out there get their DG without doing anything! Not swaying, not stressing, just getting pg!
My point is, again, make sure you want another baby. I'm really starting to accept I'm having DS3 and start looking forward meeting him, accepting my dream never came true (and never will because this is our last). And I know when I hold him, I know it will feel right, that there must be a reason he survived through all the swaying and cut off, and I know I will never regret having him, but it has been a long hard prosess..