you're sweet. I still get a very +ve OPK now, 8h after the attempt. So maybe I was wrong and this morning, it was the beginning of the surge only. So i BD too soon, maybe 20 hours too soon according to Tamara's recommendations, but still before O. I checked some stats and the day before O definitely sways boy, as 36 hours before (according to the spreadsheet) could sway girl. So i am bummed. However, i feel O pain now and i am confident that my cm was turning creamy, cervix was closing, etc. That's why i went for it. I trusted my body more than OPK. and i thought that anyway, some hours too soon wouldnt hurt. I know that usually, a +ve OPK means that you O within 24 hours but it could be any time sooner, so that still leaves me with an attempt one day before O, right... I wish I could be happier with the timing so i could know i did everything correctly if I get my BFP. All these cycles, OPK and my cm were so in sync.... But well... I still think that if I had BD 12 after after the +ve OPK i just got, that would have left me after ovulation. Anyway, I will confort myself thinking that timing is the least proved factor. And at least, i wasnt a 0+12! thanks for reading and the support!
finally, timing was right. I was correct to trust my body rather than OPK. My cervix is closed, ovulation must have occured yesterday around 10pm (when i felt some pains). To BD this morning at 5 am would have put me within 7 hours after O !! our attempt at 8am yesterday morning puts me at some 14 hours before 0. Again, i am happy that I BD beore ovulation since DD2 was conceived the day of O (0+12). we did everything we could; all the elements were with us (except that moon sign yesterday, i believe it was a female sign?). I did everything contrary to when i conceive my DDs. So now, hoping for a BFP for us all!! especially because it is my first attempt after miscarriage and I was very strict, i dont think i can continue like that for months lol
my beautiful DDs 2009 2010
gone December 2011
born 2012! believe strongly that Biorhythm & Moon gender & Praying got me my son
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