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tinksmagic

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familiesr4ever ~ sorry I was wrapped in my own pity, I didn't see your post in its entirety. I'm sorry you got 2, but it only takes 1!!! I'm kicking myself now for not only doing a gender panel and taking all boys no matter what!
12-5-09: IVF/PGD - Transferred Baby BoyBaby Boy - BFP 9dp5dt
1st beta:  9dp5dt = 86
2nd beta: 12dp5dt = 306
u/s : 1-04-10 Baby Boy
M/C at 12 weeks.Heartbroken

Transferred Baby BoyBaby Boy 1-20-12
BFP 4dp5dt! (could've been 3 if I'd used a FRER)
1st beta: 9dp5dt = 199!
2nd beta: 12dp5dt = 635
3rd beta: 17dp5dt = 2790
2 blighted ovums at 5W5D ~ Missed Miscarriage at 12 weeks. NOT GIVING UP! Changing ME!!!
 

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tinksmagic - I missed the details of your cycle.  What did you test for?  My first cycle I did 9 probe (which is unheard of now), and my second cycle I did 3 probe (which I was very happy with).  Turns out none of my embryos had down syndrome, but I was glad I knew that for sure.  Did any of your embryos test postive for down syndrome? If they did, I would probably choose 3 probe if I were you.

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Baby Boy DSS '94   Baby Boy DSS '95   Baby Boy '04   Baby Boy '06   Baby Boy '08   Baby Girl '10  


Cycle #1 MS/IVF/PGD (June 2007) - SIRM, St. Louis - No transfer (all 6 embryos abnormal and all Baby Boy) - 84% Baby Girl sort.  yes, that is correct - all boys when I sorted for a girl.  I was devastated.


Cycle #2 IVF/PGD (June 2009) - SIRM, Las Vegas.  (all 7 embryos normal, 4 boys and 3 girls) - Baby Girl born March 3, 2010

 

tinksmagic

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In a nutshell, we went rounds with the clinic on our panel. They wanted to do a 24 panel at Genesis, but after reading and talking with women on each forum, it was found that Genesis has a very low success rate and are high on inaccuracies. I wanted GSN in CA, who our clinic works with, but won't, so I decided to do a 5 panel test on day 3 at Reprogenics in New Jersey again (same as 2 years ago). I don't think they offer 3 panel there, no one said they did. We tested for boy, girl, 13, 18, and 21. Each cycle we were clear of 21, but last cycle 13 and 18 were issues and this cycle just 18. I wish I had only done 3 probe, then I may have been able to take the other 3 boys which may have been fine.

I don't know what the problem with this cycle is at all. I just called Mass General (they won't do gender, boo hiss) but we'll be working with a genetic doctor to get to the bottom of our problem. If they won't do gender, perhaps we'll at least be able to find out what chromosome IS the problem. It may take us 2 more cycles...

Still praying for a miracle!!!

12-5-09: IVF/PGD - Transferred Baby BoyBaby Boy - BFP 9dp5dt
1st beta:  9dp5dt = 86
2nd beta: 12dp5dt = 306
u/s : 1-04-10 Baby Boy
M/C at 12 weeks.Heartbroken

Transferred Baby BoyBaby Boy 1-20-12
BFP 4dp5dt! (could've been 3 if I'd used a FRER)
1st beta: 9dp5dt = 199!
2nd beta: 12dp5dt = 635
3rd beta: 17dp5dt = 2790
2 blighted ovums at 5W5D ~ Missed Miscarriage at 12 weeks. NOT GIVING UP! Changing ME!!!
 

Havebluwantp1nktoo

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Praying for your little ones, Tinks!

Baby Bear Boy '06 Baby Bear Boy '09 Baby Bear Boy '11


I'm in no way "disappointed" that I have sons, I just want the chance to raise a daughter as well. Happy Wink

Want to try for a Baby Bear Girl early next year! Pray

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I'm so sorry tinksmagic. What a crazy back and forth with the er/doctor/clinic you are going thru. I'm glad you're watching, waiting & praying instead of just jumping right away to D&C.   Dr's tend to prescribe the D&C too quick and too soon imho and you just never  know what can happen.

I'm confused why you are regretting doing the 5 probe. Weren't the other boys abnormal in the 5 probe & isn't it good you won't waste time with FET with them?  Is the 5 probe  giving false results instead of 2 probe?

Baby Bear Boy - 04


Baby Bear Boy - 07


Pray for a Baby Girl to complete our family!


1x MS IUI bfn Sad


2x MS IUI bfn Tongue Tied


3x MS IUI bfn Envy


4x MS IUI....yes, another bfn Hmm


IVF/PGD fail.  Not a single normal girl out of 10 embryos Sad

IVF/PGD#2 - PUPO with a SET normal girl!!!
Beta #1: 78
Beta #2: 238
My angel in heaven Baby Girl.....where to now??? Hearts

 

LexiAnn

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I did 3 probe at Reprogenetics in New Jersey.

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Baby Boy DSS '94   Baby Boy DSS '95   Baby Boy '04   Baby Boy '06   Baby Boy '08   Baby Girl '10  


Cycle #1 MS/IVF/PGD (June 2007) - SIRM, St. Louis - No transfer (all 6 embryos abnormal and all Baby Boy) - 84% Baby Girl sort.  yes, that is correct - all boys when I sorted for a girl.  I was devastated.


Cycle #2 IVF/PGD (June 2009) - SIRM, Las Vegas.  (all 7 embryos normal, 4 boys and 3 girls) - Baby Girl born March 3, 2010

 

LexiAnn

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Just looked on their website and they do 3, 5, 9, and 12 probes, but they do not offer only 2.

AKA -  motherof2boys 


Baby Boy DSS '94   Baby Boy DSS '95   Baby Boy '04   Baby Boy '06   Baby Boy '08   Baby Girl '10  


Cycle #1 MS/IVF/PGD (June 2007) - SIRM, St. Louis - No transfer (all 6 embryos abnormal and all Baby Boy) - 84% Baby Girl sort.  yes, that is correct - all boys when I sorted for a girl.  I was devastated.


Cycle #2 IVF/PGD (June 2009) - SIRM, Las Vegas.  (all 7 embryos normal, 4 boys and 3 girls) - Baby Girl born March 3, 2010

 

LexiAnn

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tinksmagic - still praying for a miracle for you.  When is your next u/s?  Fri?  The fact that you haven't miscarried yet seems very positive.  If you do have to cycle again, where do you think you will go now that you found out Mass General won't do gender selection.

AKA -  motherof2boys 


Baby Boy DSS '94   Baby Boy DSS '95   Baby Boy '04   Baby Boy '06   Baby Boy '08   Baby Girl '10  


Cycle #1 MS/IVF/PGD (June 2007) - SIRM, St. Louis - No transfer (all 6 embryos abnormal and all Baby Boy) - 84% Baby Girl sort.  yes, that is correct - all boys when I sorted for a girl.  I was devastated.


Cycle #2 IVF/PGD (June 2009) - SIRM, Las Vegas.  (all 7 embryos normal, 4 boys and 3 girls) - Baby Girl born March 3, 2010

 

tinksmagic

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A 3 panel was not offered to us, it may be clinic specific? I would have done a 3 panel and taken the chances. I had to discard 3 boys this cycle :(

We're going to use Mass General to get to the bottom of what the problem is before I commit to another cycle, no matter where we end up, I am running out of time as I'll be 41 in 2 months. As for this cycle, I really do need a miracle. Yes, my next u/s is late in the day on Friday. I am wondering if I haven't m/c'd yet due to that I'm still taking the progesterone? Not sure. I do know I still feel pregnant and have all the symptoms (could also be the progesterone), and my hCG levels continue to rise (normal too even with bo), I'm hoping that there's a baby hiding due to the fact I have a tilted uterus, but we'll see... I've had very minimal cramping mostly when I stress out, but the only pain I have is from my ovaries and the cysts.

I'll let everyone know how it goes Friday!

12-5-09: IVF/PGD - Transferred Baby BoyBaby Boy - BFP 9dp5dt
1st beta:  9dp5dt = 86
2nd beta: 12dp5dt = 306
u/s : 1-04-10 Baby Boy
M/C at 12 weeks.Heartbroken

Transferred Baby BoyBaby Boy 1-20-12
BFP 4dp5dt! (could've been 3 if I'd used a FRER)
1st beta: 9dp5dt = 199!
2nd beta: 12dp5dt = 635
3rd beta: 17dp5dt = 2790
2 blighted ovums at 5W5D ~ Missed Miscarriage at 12 weeks. NOT GIVING UP! Changing ME!!!
 

jany1025

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I have a pit in my stomach for you, Tinks I hope you are doing well after today's MD visit...

 

all the best,

Janet


Baby Boy IVF=Baby Boy NF1   PGD to test for NF1 and Gender August 2010 Transferred 1 Baby Girl= BFN
#2 IVF/PGD Nov 2010= No Unaffected Females to Transfer  No Unaffected Males to Freeze  # 3= May 2011 5 Fertilized --Frozen on Day 1 to  Batch with Next Cycle # 4= June 2011- Transferred 3 Baby GirlBaby Girl= BFN  Cycle# 5= September 2011-- Day 5 Biopsy-- Grade A Hatched Blastocyst Baby Girl- BFN  Cycle # 6- Different Doctor-Dr Braverman January 2012-Transferred   Baby Girl Baby GirlBaby Girl-BFN Cycle #7-April 2012 Transferred Six Baby GirlJuly 2012 Cycle #8 Transferred Baby GirlBaby GirlBaby GirlBaby Girl- BFN--WTF! October 2012 Cycle #9 Transferred Baby GirlBaby Girl- Beta 13 Chemical Pregnancy...

January 2013 New RE- SIRM-NY- April- Transferred 2  Baby GirlBaby Girl Blasts & 2Baby Girl Baby Girl Morulas= BFP!!!!!!!!


 My first attempt for a NF1- free Baby Girl= http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/p/182346/1771501.aspx#1771501                      Jany1025@aol.com

 

tinksmagic

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Thank you, Janet. I have 2 more holes in my heart. Only 1mm growth today, been moved to a "missed miscarriage" and continue to wait. Next scan will be Thursday if I make it. Was really hoping for a miracle. Funny cuz now both sacs have a wide white "halo" glow around them. But #1 is only filled with membranes and #2 is still empty.
12-5-09: IVF/PGD - Transferred Baby BoyBaby Boy - BFP 9dp5dt
1st beta:  9dp5dt = 86
2nd beta: 12dp5dt = 306
u/s : 1-04-10 Baby Boy
M/C at 12 weeks.Heartbroken

Transferred Baby BoyBaby Boy 1-20-12
BFP 4dp5dt! (could've been 3 if I'd used a FRER)
1st beta: 9dp5dt = 199!
2nd beta: 12dp5dt = 635
3rd beta: 17dp5dt = 2790
2 blighted ovums at 5W5D ~ Missed Miscarriage at 12 weeks. NOT GIVING UP! Changing ME!!!
 

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Hugs!

me 1977
husband 1974
Baby Boy 2009
and an ivf/pgd/spermsort Baby Boy nov 2012 (thank you dr Savvas!)

June 2013 @Savvas: Ivf/pgd/spermsort for a Baby Girl or even Baby Girl Baby Girl

 

LexiAnn

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I am so sorry.  My heart goes out to you.  Are you still having Mass General do testing?

AKA -  motherof2boys 


Baby Boy DSS '94   Baby Boy DSS '95   Baby Boy '04   Baby Boy '06   Baby Boy '08   Baby Girl '10  


Cycle #1 MS/IVF/PGD (June 2007) - SIRM, St. Louis - No transfer (all 6 embryos abnormal and all Baby Boy) - 84% Baby Girl sort.  yes, that is correct - all boys when I sorted for a girl.  I was devastated.


Cycle #2 IVF/PGD (June 2009) - SIRM, Las Vegas.  (all 7 embryos normal, 4 boys and 3 girls) - Baby Girl born March 3, 2010

 

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 I am so very sorry Tinks! BIG hugs Sad

Baby Bear Boy '06 Baby Bear Boy '09 Baby Bear Boy '11


I'm in no way "disappointed" that I have sons, I just want the chance to raise a daughter as well. Happy Wink

Want to try for a Baby Bear Girl early next year! Pray

formerly Saggyrl11

 

JackiesHope

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I'm so sorry Tinksmagic.... I hope you heal quickly and try again very soon!Good Luck Clover

Baby Bear Boy - 04


Baby Bear Boy - 07


Pray for a Baby Girl to complete our family!


1x MS IUI bfn Sad


2x MS IUI bfn Tongue Tied


3x MS IUI bfn Envy


4x MS IUI....yes, another bfn Hmm


IVF/PGD fail.  Not a single normal girl out of 10 embryos Sad

IVF/PGD#2 - PUPO with a SET normal girl!!!
Beta #1: 78
Beta #2: 238
My angel in heaven Baby Girl.....where to now??? Hearts

 
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