We talked today on our way home from church about the idea of continuing to save for adoption (we have roughly $5,000 saved, so far), while trying to concieve again in 2-3 years. If we have our own son, then we'll have a sweet extra savings account to play with. If we have another girl, we will have quite a bit saved to actually adopt 2-3-5 years after baby girl #2.
I think this is a very good plan. You already have $5,000 saved, which is really awesome! I know you've been on this site long enough to know about swaying, but you should consider swaying for a boy when you conceive next, even if it increases your odds by 1%, that is something.
Here are direct links to those forums/information for boy swaying:
General Swaying Forum: http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/15.aspx
Trying to Conceive a Boy FAQ and Supplements: http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/t/3585.aspx
Trying to Conceive a Boy and Girl Ebook (written by our own Tamara) - http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/t/151760.aspx