I think it's become the norm to have two kids nowadays. When we told people I was pregnant again they kept saying "you're crazy! Three kids, wow!" And I was like why is three crazy? To me that's more normal. They can't even understand why we would possibly go for four. I think society has made everything for a family of four so it's "normal" and easier to have two kids.
yes plus if you ever go out to eat its hard to get a table to seat everyone. booths are impossiable but i like them cause i can trap the toddler against the wall. and hotels charge you more or make you pay for a suite because of the fire codes.
So agree with this one! Everything is designed for families of 4- if you go to a museum or event around here, a family ticket is 2 adults, 2 kids. Same with a family room in a hotel.
When I told people I was having my third, you would have thought I announced that this was my 10th- so many people said '3 kids, WOW, that's going to be so much work'. Like having only 2 is a walk in the park....
We are Catholics though, and my oldest goes to a Catholic school and there are quite a few families there with 3 or 4 children and there are 2 families with 6 and 1 with 7 children. In my son's class of 30 children, 13 of his classmates are one of 3 or more children.