Odan gave me 20th May!!!! (and their calender ended in July 2011, because I ordered it already last summer and it was for one year). What do you think about that date? Is it just bogus and did they sell me bullshit?
I like your sprit.. sorry to alarm you. Odan is correct about your date on May 20, 2011. No, they didn't sell you bullshit. I'll explain; I Do this professionally, but for ingender ladies I offer one date for free, so I pick the best
date available. And since you A. have a small army of boys & B. very fervently want a girl, I picked your best
female dates. And I gave you two since you had so few, neither of which were the soonest available.
About May 20th. The planets are nicely female in Taurus and the Moon is newly in Capricorn, which is female with plenty of girl moon time ahead. The conception date would likely bring you an Aquarius baby and your natal Moon is in Aquarius, which would fit nicely.
However, this date has some potentially problematic aspects with Uranus which, when coupled with the aspects of Uranus in your natal chart, is not the best. But it's also not the worst either. Uranus is associated with sudden and unexpected changes, upsets to convention, surprises, disruption, and unconventional ways. Sound like fun words to describe a pregnancy? Not exactly.
Still, if you've had no trouble in the past with conception, pregnancy, etc., there's no reason you can't try for your girl on this date. What time did Odan give you for May 20th?
Would you recommend trying in the preceeding months by using timing and diet? Or do you believe this moon-thing to be stronger?
In my humble opinion and experience, the forces of nature at work, represented by the placement of the Moon, is what determines gender. Of course it can't hurt to take a Calcium/Magnesium supplement when trying for a girl as long as you don't neglect taking a quality pre-natal vitamin. But if it came down to only one factor, I would pick the Moon over anything else, every time.
I don't think you're ungreatful at all. I think you're doing a good job of weighing all your options to achieve the little pink outcome you so deeply desire. And I completely understand not wanting to wait. If you're having trouble with errors, email me directly. I'll verify the time odan gave you and answer any questions you have.... then if you feel comfortable with May 20th, go for it. email@example.com