I'm sad too, I really liked Holden Ray! Maybe DH will come around to it, I do have a couple of suggestions that might work, what about Hunter Ray or Cooper Ray or Camden, Levi, Logan, Landon, Easton, Wyatt. For the girls names I think Avery Claire is adorable and it would be cute with your DD's name. Adysen and Avery, cute sister names. I also think Ainsley is cute, Ellery, Delaney, Sienna, and I've always really liked the name Zoe. Good luck and hopefully your DH will come around, I love the name Holden and thought it sounded so cute with Ray as his middle name.