I could've written both posts!! We finally decided last year we would go for it..even though my DH was still content with the 2 boys and then I MC at 9 weeks and my DH said, okay were done now!!! Um no, then it was too late, I already had the idea of this third baby in my head, we decided we'd try again and sway for my DD, and as I was waiting for my AF to start so we could start our attempts, it never came as I was alredy PG! So now I'll guess we'll have to wait and see and if I get DS#3, maybe I'll have this discussion again next year!! That's my fear now, if it's a DS will I want to ttc DD again or if it's DD will I want to TTC again to give her a sister....oh boy decisions! I went to a website for people who were contimplating 3 kids, can't remember the name but something simple like, having 3 kids. I think one kid is mandatory, 2 is what most do, but 3 is just an option!! Let's see what I'm in for!!!