Awe Bumblybees, that's such a great story! Do you plan to find out the gender this time?
I have no doubt in my mind that I will instantly fall in love with this baby, boy or girl, I look at my dd and think about how I could ever not love another baby girl and it's just not possible. If I were patient enough I would def wait to find out the gender, but I'm a planner/obsesser and if I could, I would have found it out the moment I got my bfp. I know that I'll be a little disappointed if I don't get my little boy, but mostly because dh and I would prefer just to have two, and that would mean that we were gonna try once more, but even if we end up with 3 girls, I know I'd love them all the same. It would just be so nice to have a boy though, and even if dh denies it, I know he's jealous of his brother having an adorable little boy.
@Dream4Pink - I'll trade ya my pink dust for your blue dust!