Hi guys thanks for the replies!!
Well turns out bub is still head down, the MW said he is higher than he was, shes inclined to think maybe what I felt was bub disengaging and repositioning, she said sometimes they dont engage in the most favorable way and maybe thats why I have been getting lots of false labor feelings, but apparently he is still down there and she hopes maybe this time he will settle in better and I will progress. She was a really lovely MW, I explained about all the stopping and starting contractions etc that Ive been getting and she told me to come in tonite if nothing has happened yet and she will do a stretch and sweep, she couldnt do it straight away as all the labor rooms were full. I had a few really good strong contractions last nite that woke me up, but still nothing has progressed this morning so hoping she will do the trick tonite!!
Thanks again for the reassuring posts, you were right to say that I would still get bub either way, women have CS's every day successfully, I think I was just scared because its the oppoiste to what Ive expected after having two easy VB's previously. LJSLADY - you sound like a dream patient!! I have 2 freinds that had CS the same day last month, one was out and about 2 days later, and back in her old jeans already, the other is still home bound and struggling now, I think its a bit like a vaginal birth I guess, some cope better than others or have a better experience. Either way, both those girls have their babies in arms now so Im sure they would both do it again in a heartbeat!! I guess for me its just the fear of the unknown. But looks like I should be right anyway. Hope all you girls are doing well!!!