I totally see what you're saying. It does baffle me (even with how strongly I love my boys) that someone would PREFER a boy to a girl. But it also makes me feel really good, that not everyone feels sorry for me and my family makeup.
These days, as my GD wanes, I feel really sad when someone is horrified by the thought of a boy. I know why they're feeling what they feel, and I felt every bit of it myself, but it makes me so sad.
Mom to two perfect, adorable, amazing boys!
Starting IVF/PGD for a little girl on 5/26/2010
IVF 1: right ovary inaccessible, no transfer (no normal females out of 4 embies)
IVF2: cancelled: severe allergic reaction to Lupron
IVF3: no normal females out of 5 embies
IVF4: 7 eggs retrieved, 4 fertilized - frozen to batch PGD with last cycle
IVF5: 7 eggs retrieved, 1 fertilized. Fresh + frozen to PGD = TWO HEALTHY FEMALES! Transfer 3/11, BFN
IVF6: 6 eggs retrieved, 3 eggs fertilized = ONE healthy female! BFN
IVF7: 1 egg retrieved! :-(, fertilized - frozen to batch PGD with *last* cycle
IVF8: 5 eggs retrieved, 4 fertilized, 3 grew, batched with frozen = ONE healthy female! Transfer 3/4/12 - BFP!!! Miscarriage at 11 weeks. Looks like we're a two-boy family forever!