I will, as I said, still be cheering on folks here, but not a chance in hell I let the details of my personal life be fodder for debate any further.
I understand, Katey, that you are feeling the heat re. the whole triplet thing. I am also sorry you are now faced with such a heartbreaking decision to make. I truly hope you can find peace with whatever you decide.
Having said that, the topic of selective reduction is always going to upset people, you have to expect that. As I have said before, IG is a huge source of information. It is important that we *all* know & understand that "triplets do happen". Sadly, your situation has sparked the fire, although it now provides an opportunity for us to educate others.
Wishing you the very best.