EGD: PLEASE STOP HERE IF YOUR DISAPPOINTMENT IS EXTREME

Hi there,

I see you are on line and I have a huge question for you...even though you have two weeks to wait right?
I DTD 3.5 days before oing....well, 4 days but if you could that it was late more like 3.5. Could I even get pregnant or should I go for o plus 12?

I am so confused by all this swaying nonsense!

I have two boys and dream of a girl but I am getting older!

2 weeks...If I have it correct, I hope it goes fast!

 I stopped DTD 6/7 DAYS before I know for sure that I ovulated, and im eagerly waiting 8 more days to confirm my first girl after 3 boys, so believe me, it's possible!

JoannaK

Same story here. I had a positive pregnancytest today. 3 boys and this was kind of an accident.....So #4 is on the way and i hope it's a girl....We had intercourse on saterday and my ovu test was positive on wednsday....so I hope that all boys were dead already....

 Congrats on your pregnancy!!!!!!

I definitely think there is something behind the Shettles method, even though I've read many articles that say it's been proved wrong. In terms of genetics and your odds of having the same gender, according to an anaesthisiologist I've spoken to, she says after having one baby, your chance of the second bub being the same gender is 85 %, the third baby goes down to 65%, but then by the 4th pregnancy, the odds of having the same gender go back to 50/50, so you've got a good chance, I think we may have just needed the "experience" of active boys before we could/can truly appreciate a girl! That's the way I'm looking at it!!

Take care and keep me posted xx

JoannaK

I will keep you posted, and please let me know when you know wether you'r having a boy or girl. At this point i think 4 boys would be nice too. But i still long for a girl! I had a really bad GD when I found out #3 was a boy! My husband already said to keep in mind this could be another boy aswell. I never heard that your changes fot the same gender increases with every child. I just hope faith will be nice to me.....

cowbell:

Does the egd forum still exist

yes it does.

to get approval takes time.  Keep posting.  We protect the egd forum because once a person is in their we can not remove them. 

Tamara:

cowbell:

Does the egd forum still exist

yes it does.

to get approval takes time.  Keep posting.  We protect the egd forum because once a person is in their we can not remove them. 

I am sad and confused. I have been a member since Oct. When I first started, I was so happy to read this beautiful post that described exactly how I felt. I followed the instructions and posted. I am in a dark place and to know that something I depended on is not available just makes me feel further depressed. I understand by now the members in the EGD have probably gotten close. So maybe make two boards? One for people who make the post requirements and one by invitation only. The few times I have expressed EGD in the regular forums it has been harshly received. It hurts. But I figured, well 30 posts of this and I can meet up with people who understand and will not judge me.

I encourage you to please rewrite this post with an update for what is required for access. (More posts? How many? Length of membership? Gold membership? Something concrete to work towards so you know that you haven't slipped through the cracks). I don't want anyone else with EGD to go through this process of not knowing when or how you can get help. The baby is due next year. I really NEED help!! I'm really scared at what's happening to me.

I would like access to EGD.

154 posts...still not a word about getting acces.....It would be nice to have people to talk to or even help others get over their GD! But we keep on waiting...

I mean 124 posts....

I had a terrible GD with boy #3....Now I'm pregnant with #4 and I don't want to go trough the same as I already did. It felt horrible and I really don't know what to do if GD is coming up again...

Can I get access to EGD forum? Been a long time member here..

 I will take anyone's poor unwanted little boy.

Azuremyst:

 I will take anyone's poor unwanted little boy.

Aww.. so sweet