i want another little boy so bad. 
the last time i got preg was an accident. i was 18 mo pp, on the mini pill, wore a pessary, and was bf'ing round the clock. it must have been hard for the little swimmy to get past the pessary. i had to take it out to conceive my first girl.
now i am 12 mo pp and still no sign of AF. we bf alot buut she does sleep 6 hours at night most nights.
so i am afraid it will happen again. another first pp egg. so i am changing what i can now. first, i have fibromyalgia and GERD. well, i cut out dairy. GERD got better. quit taking nexxium, which is esomeprazole magnesium. which i was taking when i conceived both girls. bc i am not taking nexxium and my GERD is 95% better from not drinking milk (and cutting down on grains) i only use baking soda and water for when heartburn does occur. can be anywhere from 3 x day to once every other day. i still need carbs cause i am bfing so i eat lots of potatoes (am allergic to bananas) and i likes em salty. lol. i also find myself to be happier when i dont eat bread or gluten. i am mostly eating red meat, potatoes and some other veggies. i drink red raspberry leaf tea, mother's milk tea, green tea, lemon water, and rice milk. i have tried cutting out pop and am down to one every other day (the organic kind- no caffeine or HFCS just regular cane sugar). completely cut out all pastries. i have been swimming in a chlorinated pool once a week and taking yoga classes 2 x a week. i was pretty week to begin with so i lifting my own body weight is kinda hard. and i recently lost 10 lbs bc of these changes. most of the change was for my health, but i am reading on here that all that sways too. watcha think?