Check out the gold section!
http://www.in-gender.com/CS/forums/112.aspx
http://www.in-gender.com/CS/forums/t/17951.aspx
You post your detailed plan in there and I (and other gold members) will go over it with a fine toothed comb to make it perfect! Go check it out!
** The gold section requires a paid membership to in-gender ($12 a year). If you can't get membership and still need help with your plan please pm me!!! I'll be glad to help 