I ask this because even though I would like another, sometimes I think "what am I thinking??".
I hate the baby stage. The no communicating, the diapers, the taking forever to get ready to go out the house, dragging a baby out is no fun. The crying..ect. I know there are good parts to though.
My ds is 19 months and he is pure joy. I love him so much but sometimes I wish I could snap my fingers and turn him into a 6 year old.
When I think about having another all I can think of, "I don't want to do it ALL-OVER-AGAIN".
But I think in 10 years if I don't have another, I will wish I did have another, especially for the fact that the baby stage doesn't last forever, but it sure seems like it does doesn't it?
I think part of the problem is that I am getting older, dh is almost 10 years older than me, and I have no family or friends to help me emotionally. I had ppd after ds was born and dh made it worse, I think he had pdd himself. I had no one. I am afriad of going through that again.