I live in CT and did the Ericsson technique with Dr. Silverman in NY. Is that the "spin doctor" you mean? We went to Dr. Silverman early last year and, at that time, he was the closest Ericsson doctor to CT.
I can't really answer your question about using thawed sperm or not. We did ours opposite that. We had the sperm sample sorted and then it was frozen. It was thawed on the day of my egg retrieval and used to make our embryos. Our first IVF cycle failed so we used frozen embryos for a FET. We definitely had a lot of freezing and thawing going on, but it wasn't in the order you're talking about. Also, we were close enough to Dr. Silverman that we were able to drive the sperm sample back and forth. It was about an hour commute. Dr. Silverman sorted the sample and DH drove it back between his legs to keep it warm to my RE in CT. My RE in CT then froze the sample at his office and stored it until our IVF cycle.
I think your best bet is to email the doctor and ask them if they can do what you need them to do. I know it is possible to have frozen sperm samples shipped back and forth from office to office, it's just a matter of whether or not these particular doctors will do it.
If you have any other questions that I might be able to help with, I'll be happy to answer as best I can. :)
~ Kara ~
My three boys:
Matthew James 15, Khaled Thomas 7, Kaden Franco 2
And my baby girl!
Zayna Ann - 12/29/06, 8:36 am, 7 lbs. 3 oz., 20 1/4 inches
(Ericsson/IVF)