Some of these abbreviations will overlap with some of the abbreviations used elsewhere on sites like this & babycenter...
PAP- prospective adoptive parent
AP- adoptive parent (or attachment parenting : P)
IA- international adoption
SW- social worker
HS- homestudy
PPR- post-placement report
TD- travel dates
EE- Eastern Europe
FAS/FAE- fetal alcohol syndrome/fetal alcohol exposure
VN- Vietnam
G&R- giving & receiving ceremony (when adoption becomes official in VN)
DTC- dossier to China, DTV- dossier to Vietnam, DTR- dossier to Russia, etc...
LID- log in date (of dossier)
DC- darling child
DD- darling daughter
DS- darling son
DH- darling husband
this is all i could think of for now, feel free if anyone wants to add some 