Hi everyone, My name is Melissa 
I am 14 weeks today with my second child I have a 7 yr old boy and my husban has a 4 yr old daughter both our children are from previouse marriges and i am very happy with my son, I really Honestly can say from the bottom of my heart that what ever i am having will be fine with me i have sooo much fun with my boy and i love him to death .. and if i had a girl i am soo sure it would be the same .... so i dont have a prefrence ... BUT!!!!! my hubby is flipping out ... he tells me the story of the day he found out he was having a girl and how it broke his heart .... dont get me rong he loves her with all of his heart but the gender did disapoint him ..... now our DR told us that bassed on a study they did Between 5-7 weeks if the babys heart beat was highrt than 150 it was a girl and if it was lower it was a boy at that time our babys heart rate was 142 bpm ....now he is counting down the days to our next DR appointment on dec 3 .. and i am looseing sleep over this im sooo affraid to dissapoint him .. i know how bad he wants a boy and i keep having this dream that the dr tells us we are having a girl and he starts to cry ....OH GOD !!!!!!!!! i have this pain in the pit of my stomach ... i just cant wait to get over this appointment anyone have any advise pleaaaassssseeee Helpppppppppppppppppppp
xoxoxoxox good luck to all the mommies to be xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxo