SU/MSU Buddy Group-November

Hello ladies!!!  Let's hope November bring us all our BFP's!!!!   

WELCOME to all the newbies that are joining in on this fabulous group of women!!!    I have a list below of those who are ttc & with bfp's.  If I am wrong about someone or am missing something, please let me know so I will correct it.  Also, please let me know how many months you have been ttc so I can add that in as many women like to know that when researching EGS.  I appreciate any help.

I am waiting for a sample right now in the incubator so I can hit around an O+14 or so...it's the only reason why I am up this late.

Boy stats, girl stats, egs graduates buddy group  egs faq forum 

TTC Boy w/ MSU
giraffe

TTC Girl w/ SU  
Anna bell
BabyBobadoo
fivecrazymonkeys
graceabounds-GDC/SU/TBM
lola1979-practicing SU right now, will start ttc June 2010.
luvr4boyz-9th month
Maybebabythree
mythreebrowneyedcuties
Purple Dream-7th month

BFP's TTC
flava- EDD 2/15/10
gardangels EDD mid May2010-no swaying
mumof3girls EDD 2/13/2010
rebirtha born on 10/04/09
renfro_erin EDD 2/2010?
HiEveryone EDD 12/6/09
Tamara born 10/08

BFP's TTC  
asissy4gabbie- born on 8/23/09
emilysung- 7/20/08 (not sure when she actually delivered)
hopefull2009-EDD 6/27/10 
kelchay-EDD 7/20/10
mykids-EDD 3/25/10
rachel idris-EDD 5/20/10

 Hi everyone and good luck with your attempts!

Anna - yes it would be lovely to meet up, pm when you want to meet etc.

I have decided to postpone ttc until June as at least then it will be summer here and I think I will be more ready with all my equiptment. I've decided against May as ds2 was conceived in May! I'm going to try and get all the neg ion stuff ready - Anna do you use neg ion light bulbs? If so did you get them locally?

 Good luck in November girls!

Well ladies, it looks like I had a fake o on cd17.  I finally completely O'd yesterday and ended up inserting really early this morning to get close to O+12 as possible.  This past week has been exhausting.  It started out perfect with great SU's and then everything started failing.  I ended up doing SD's because I couldn't get anything to float! I don't know what my dh was eating that threw things off but I couldn't get anything to float which hasn't happened in quite some time! Well, I'm glad that I'm finally 1 dpo.

How is everyone else doing?  Practicing? In 2ww? Oing?

hay swim down is better than not doing it at all! good job!

Ya know after doing this for as long as I have I have never done SD!!!  Is that just taking the top portion for your sample?  Just curious for next month as I usually throw the sample away when it does not float!

So, I think I am out AGAIN this month.  My LMP was Oct 6th and that was a 26 day cycle...well, I am on 28 days today...no af, so I assume I am on a 31 day, but took a Walgreens blue +/- test and BFN!!!  So, af must be coming soon...a few more days although today I am only 8dpo...or my second O because the first surge the week before was a fake O, I guess.  So, 8 dpo today but that does not seem right because af if 31 days would be here in 3 days????  I am so confused, but I 4-sure O'd the second time on Sunday Oct 25th!!  So, anyways I guess I will be doing this again next month!!  Is that still a good girl month or should I take a break from this all? 

Hi girls. I feel so sad its November!!! I so wanted to be PG by now! Never mind

I have been TTC for one month - but thinking it about it since Jan this year. I had a few months of missing my O so really it has been about four months. I am not getting so hung up on o+12 anymore or I will will never get PG!!!

Good luck. I feel so down right now. I can't wait to get experimenting asap!!!

Maybe....I too am so sad right now!!  I thought this was my month...everything seemed to be on my side...moon...calendar...O!!  But I think AF is coming and I wanted to be pregnant already too!!  Why is this happening??  What am I doing wrong??  This will be month 10 for me!!!  Should I take a break for the sake of GIRL month?  Is Nov. boy month???  I am just so frustrated!!!  Things are just not going for me this past week!!  Just bad news after bad news!!  I thought I could end it with a BFP and that would just lift my spirits up!!!  Gosh, If I have to have dh take these supps any longer and keep producing samples on demand...I am just going to cry!!!

So....Maybebaby...I feel ya right now!!

Luvr4boyz:

Maybe....I too am so sad right now!!  I thought this was my month...everything seemed to be on my side...moon...calendar...O!!  But I think AF is coming and I wanted to be pregnant already too!!  Why is this happening??  What am I doing wrong??  This will be month 10 for me!!! 

I had this feeling so many times when I was ttc.  but I didnt give up.  And now i'm so glad I didnt!

L4Bs - Personally I am not missing Nov even if it a boy month. I don't think every little detail can always be spot on. You are doing everything else. As Tamara says - just keep on and pray you get that BFP soon. I am lucky as DH is easy going. If I am happy he is happy to continue. It really takes it out of you. What was your DH's cut off date? Was it Jan?

Yeah..Jan.  At this point I am ready to be done by Jan!!!!  But, then when Jan. gets here...ahh...different story I am sure!!!  I just hope it does not take that long.  My DH is pretty easy going...except when I get frustrated...and I dont communicate things well to him!!  My dh is just happy with the FOUR kids we have and is having another baby just for me!!!  He of course will love another baby, but is really not the one wanting all this madness of having a girl!!!  So anyhow...I wish I could figure out what I am doing wrong here!!!!!  

Thanks Tamara...I am sure you did have those feelings too!!  I am a strong woman, but this is breaking me!!!  I just feel that I will never have a daughter despite all my efforts!!!!

Luvr4boyz:

Thanks Tamara...I am sure you did have those feelings too!!  I am a strong woman, but this is breaking me!!!  I just feel that I will never have a daughter despite all my efforts!!!!

I felt that way about getting a ds.  and to be honest I dont know if this will bring you a dd.  But I'm praying it does.  BTW I LOVE your new aviator

Thank you!!!  It is a picture of the sunset in Maui.....and my focus .  Such a beautiful site to pray to for a beautiful wish to come true!!

Luvr4boyz:

Yeah..Jan.  At this point I am ready to be done by Jan!!!!  But, then when Jan. gets here...ahh...different story I am sure!!!  I just hope it does not take that long.  My DH is pretty easy going...except when I get frustrated...and I dont communicate things well to him!!  My dh is just happy with the FOUR kids we have and is having another baby just for me!!!  He of course will love another baby, but is really not the one wanting all this madness of having a girl!!!  So anyhow...I wish I could figure out what I am doing wrong here!!!!!  

My DH was the person who put the thought of a third in my mind so now he is paying.....

In some ways its good to have a end date - but in other ways its not. My end date is Dec but I am not ready so I will carry on until I am ready to call it a day. Would you have a break in Jan then come back after a few months? I feel so empty when I look into the future without a baby on the way, but also the more time passes my urge for a DD lessens a bit. I don't think you are doing anything wrong. You could be trying naturally and not get PG with nothing wrong with you or DH. Stay strong xxx