Turtles-I like the hole in the condom too. We were going to do that, but DH didn't like it too much....LOL! So we just use the hole in the condom on non-girl days (Jonas/Lunar method).
DH doesn't want TTC #2 to take as long as it did with our DS, so he really wants me to go see my ob/gyn, even though we've really only been TTC for 2months. (FYI My ob-gyn is 1hr's flight away & we happening to be going there anyways for business/paperwork in November) I booked an appointment, but I bet that she'll just tell us to keep trying for another 4months. I kinda felt dumb making the appointment. Oh well, can't hurt & she's really nice (I don't trust the ob/gyn's where I live).