Hey there everyone. Ive posted here before a couple times. For those that haven't read my post, Im Marybeth. Im 29, with 3 beautiful girls. Desperately wanting a boy, but doesnt matter as long as baby is healthy now!
Ok, so I had the test done. Baby was so incredibly Cute and was moving. Well, a little bit into the scan the sonographer said do you want to know the sex? I wasnt going to even ask as I know its too early, it can go either way. I said yes, and she THINKS it may be a little BOY.
Im so happy about this but annoyed because she gave me a crappy picture of the baby that doesnt show the nub. well at least I dont see it. I will try and post it later.
The bad news is that the scan showed that the baby has a thicker than normal neck and I have to go to genetics counselor for further testing! She was soooo rude tho when I was asking questions just kept saying "The genetics doctor will answer all your questions".
They told me that they would recommend terminating the pregnancy, but that it was my decision etc. Mind you this place I go to also does Abortions. So I left outta there crying and I must have looked like a total mess cuz the security guard asked me if I needed help.
Does anyone think I have a chance that this baby will still be ok? :-( I dont want to terminate the pregnancy as they suggested. They are going soley on my ultrasound because the bloodwork didnt come back (did it today) My doctor said that she rarely sees false positives and that she doesnt want to upset me,
but she has to present me the facts. But for now I just want some answers! And some Hope. I want to celebrate that it MIGHT be a boy, but this thing has me so upset. Please answer this post. Thanks guys.
So regardless of my situation, what do you guys think????? Boy/Girl? I dont think I can see it. Just wanted to try :)