I am not a neat freak, at all.... exept when it comes to my kitchen. I have to have it clean all the time, or I can't stop thinking about it until I clean it. It's spotless all the time. I get grossed out if it's dirty.
My living room is always full of toys, blankets, pillows, stuffed animals. They don't get picked up everyday.
My laundry piles up. I wash all the laundry, but when it comes to putting it away I have piles of clean clothes in baskets all over the house. Doesn't bother me.