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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="http://www.in-gender.com/cs/utility/FeedStylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>Extreme Gender Swaying</title><link>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/93.aspx</link><description>At-home self-insemination: TBM Method and Spliming. (Formerly "At-Home High Tech".)</description><dc:language>en</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2007.1 (Debug Build: 20917.1142)</generator><item><title>Re: # of Drops TBM Survey!!!!</title><link>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/39045.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 27 Feb 2007 01:11:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:39045</guid><dc:creator>Blessed3X</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/39045.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=93&amp;PostID=39045</wfw:commentRss><description>i just got my universal strips in the mail!!!&amp;nbsp; i'll let u all know how it goes later!&amp;nbsp; ;)&amp;nbsp; but right now, we're going out to the store...&amp;nbsp; "see" you guys later!&amp;nbsp; ;)</description></item><item><title>Re: # of Drops TBM Survey!!!!</title><link>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38993.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2007 22:55:46 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:38993</guid><dc:creator>Ramona Quimby</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38993.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=93&amp;PostID=38993</wfw:commentRss><description>mo4B- i know, that freaks me out too!!! what if my strips dont show the REAL ph!!! yikes.... just something else to give me wrinkles!&lt;div&gt;&lt;br class="khtml-block-placeholder"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;momof2boys- i grew up in longview :) and my mom still lives there. my dad and his wife are on the washington side across from hood river oregon. &lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: # of Drops TBM Survey!!!!</title><link>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38975.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2007 22:30:17 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:38975</guid><dc:creator>fivecrazymonkeys</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38975.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=93&amp;PostID=38975</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT style="BACKGROUND-COLOR:#faf6eb;"&gt;So good to read other husbands that help out. My DH does the washing &amp;amp; folding as I hate that job so much. I have to admit I am a little controlling over the bathroom &amp;amp; kitchen as I am the bleach queen lol..I never take the rubbish out yuk it makes me feel ill..&amp;amp; the boys have a few chores too.Our Dishwasher wasn't installed for 2 years ahhh &amp;amp; the older boys had to wash up&amp;nbsp;the dinner things.They are very happy that the dishwasher is now in..&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;FONT style="BACKGROUND-COLOR:#faf6eb;"&gt;I wonder if the Ph strips all show a different PH number. I was using the litmus paper from Genpeg off Ebay but maybe some show the "true" PH &amp;amp; others don't!&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: # of Drops TBM Survey!!!!</title><link>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38967.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2007 22:08:29 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:38967</guid><dc:creator>Blessed3X</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38967.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=93&amp;PostID=38967</wfw:commentRss><description>hi i am closer to Portland, lol.&amp;nbsp; we're right across the bridge from OR for tax-free shopping!!&amp;nbsp; ;)&amp;nbsp; and WA has no state income tax so that is pretty cool.&amp;nbsp; i'll put a rain cloud just for us Pac NW'ers&amp;nbsp;;)</description></item><item><title>Re: # of Drops TBM Survey!!!!</title><link>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38947.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2007 21:28:57 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:38947</guid><dc:creator>Ramona Quimby</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38947.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=93&amp;PostID=38947</wfw:commentRss><description>YUCK!!!! toilets are my DH job that and folding laundry.... i dont do those! eveything else we kind of share although vaccuming is all me. he also will tidy up th ekitchen.... something that i am very lazy about :) we have good DH's !!!&lt;div&gt;&lt;br class="khtml-block-placeholder"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;momof2boys- i know on another thread you asked me where i was closer to sea or portland. then i asked you the same. but i lost the thread! so tell me, are you near me or closer to oregon??? (no way will i lose this thread LOL!!!)&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: # of Drops TBM Survey!!!!</title><link>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38945.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2007 21:25:47 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:38945</guid><dc:creator>Blessed3X</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38945.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=93&amp;PostID=38945</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;P&gt;well actually i meant around the toilet, as well as in, ewwww!!&amp;nbsp; &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;but yes, when my boys are older, they'll definitely be helping around the house!!&amp;nbsp; my 5yr. old does help sometimes, with much persistence though&amp;nbsp; : /&amp;nbsp; i try to get him to pick up his toys, and he does enjoy helping me with the trash sometimes (he gets to dump the trash in while i hold the bag~ yes trash is usually a man's job but we do the small trash cans in the house).&amp;nbsp; also DS1 has been known to take a hand broom &amp;amp; duster and sweep under the baby's highchair, awwwww!!!&amp;nbsp; how cute!!!&amp;nbsp; ;-)&amp;nbsp; that's already lost it's nostalgia though!!&lt;/P&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: # of Drops TBM Survey!!!!</title><link>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38926.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2007 20:48:55 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:38926</guid><dc:creator>Shel</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38926.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=93&amp;PostID=38926</wfw:commentRss><description>Momof2 -- hehe, I know what you mean about toilets and boys!!!&amp;nbsp; Hell, the toilet is usually fine, it's all around the toilet at my house!&amp;nbsp; Luckily I have 2 strapping young men old enough to clean the bathroom&amp;nbsp; &lt;img src="http://www.in-gender.com/CS/emoticons/Happy-BigSmile.gif" alt="Happy  LOL" /&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: # of Drops TBM Survey!!!!</title><link>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38918.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2007 20:41:22 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:38918</guid><dc:creator>Blessed3X</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38918.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=93&amp;PostID=38918</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;P&gt;that's what HUSBANDS are for!!!&amp;nbsp; ; P&amp;nbsp; i seriously do make him clean, LOL.&amp;nbsp; he gets mad at me sometimes, but he does it... eventually.&amp;nbsp; i do stuff too though, sometimes, but i say i can't be expected to take care of the kids, you, myself AND the house all by&amp;nbsp; myself?!?!??&amp;nbsp; and have any time for online!!&amp;nbsp;;-)&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;besides toilets are a NASTY job when you have all MALES in the house!!&amp;nbsp; that's his job&amp;nbsp;; )&amp;nbsp; i'm the laundry wench, lol.&lt;/P&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: # of Drops TBM Survey!!!!</title><link>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38901.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2007 20:10:03 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:38901</guid><dc:creator>Eden</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38901.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=93&amp;PostID=38901</wfw:commentRss><description>mom of 2 boys--- 'cleaning'....ROFL. The boys will just mess it up anyways. Going on line is a much more productive use of time. LOL</description></item><item><title>Re: # of Drops TBM Survey!!!!</title><link>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38868.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2007 18:53:10 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:38868</guid><dc:creator>Blessed3X</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38868.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=93&amp;PostID=38868</wfw:commentRss><description>i also thought of raindrops, and almost brought that up as a point!&amp;nbsp; ;)&amp;nbsp; now DS2 is waking up, so much for my "fun time" online, lol.&amp;nbsp; not like i use the downtime for CLEANING or anything, LOL!!&amp;nbsp; : P</description></item><item><title>Re: # of Drops TBM Survey!!!!</title><link>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38819.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2007 16:22:07 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:38819</guid><dc:creator>Shel</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38819.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=93&amp;PostID=38819</wfw:commentRss><description>Maybe this is way off, but I just happened to think of rain drops.&amp;nbsp; It rained alot here yesterday and sometimes the drops were little and then they got bigger.&amp;nbsp; So maybe the same goes for drops out of a dropper.. I dunno --</description></item><item><title>Re: # of Drops TBM Survey!!!!</title><link>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38816.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2007 16:16:58 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:38816</guid><dc:creator>Blessed3X</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38816.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=93&amp;PostID=38816</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;P&gt;OAB~&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;my guess is if you use a bigger dropper, you will probably get a bigger drop.&amp;nbsp; "Not all drops are created equal" &amp;nbsp;; P&amp;nbsp; Like momof3 said, i don't think you're doing anything wrong.&amp;nbsp; each DH is unique and so is the sample...&amp;nbsp; though i was surprised that i think it was you posted on 1 of these TBM threads about the process, you said "anywhere from (i think) 4-15 drops."&amp;nbsp; i thought it was only suppose to be like 3-5 drops and thought *I* was doing something wrong when i had to add so many drops to my DH's sample.&amp;nbsp; I thought man, he must be *really* alkaline or something!!&amp;nbsp; which he is, but i thought going past 5 drops meant i was going to be killing everything off.&amp;nbsp; i'm still confused about this, which is why i wanted to try to check with a&amp;nbsp;microscope, not to say i'd be successful at even figuring that out!&amp;nbsp; i think i'm going to stay on the low side a little since i don't have months &amp;amp; months to play around, as the Clomid is giving me too many side effects this time around...&amp;nbsp; keep us posted &amp;amp; i'll do the same!&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;i think even if i get DH from 8.5 to a 6 that is a huge improvement, though i'd like to at least get a 5.5.&amp;nbsp; i know this could increase my chance of boy, but again i don't have forever i feel, and i don't want to go overboard and not get pg...&amp;nbsp; i feel i'll be lucky if i can even get pg this way!!&amp;nbsp; LOL&amp;nbsp; i'll leave the rest up to God and hope he answers my prayers!!!&lt;/P&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: # of Drops TBM Survey!!!!</title><link>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38812.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2007 16:10:54 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:38812</guid><dc:creator>Shel</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38812.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=93&amp;PostID=38812</wfw:commentRss><description>That is an interesting question.&amp;nbsp; I would think that it depends on the size of the opening of the dropper-- but I'm by no means a science expert....&amp;nbsp;</description></item><item><title>Re: # of Drops TBM Survey!!!!</title><link>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38803.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2007 15:35:55 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:38803</guid><dc:creator>Ramona Quimby</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38803.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=93&amp;PostID=38803</wfw:commentRss><description>hum???? maybe? but dont you think all drops everywhere in all of the world would be the same size? arent drops determined by gravity and since that is a constant everywhere arent all drops then the same mass? or am i totally wrong and drops are more a product of what they are dropping from?</description></item><item><title>Re: # of Drops TBM Survey!!!!</title><link>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38795.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Feb 2007 15:02:14 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:38795</guid><dc:creator>Shel</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/38795.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=93&amp;PostID=38795</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.in-gender.com/CS/Themes/default/images/icon-quote.gif"&gt; &lt;strong&gt;momof2boys:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; 
&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;though the bottom color gets bright yellow but i've read on here to go by the top color if the 2 color boxes don't match.&lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;P&gt;I used the Alkalive strips.&amp;nbsp; I couldn't get the top color to change when I tested my cm, but the bottom color did, so that is what I followed.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;OAB-- I don't think you're doing anything wrong... every dh's sample is different... maybe his is just more 'potent.'&amp;nbsp; Maybe it also has to do do with the dropper size.&amp;nbsp; Mine is fairly fat, so perhaps I was dropping in bigger drops.&lt;/P&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>