MicroSort and PGD

Re: So it apprears I may actually have a HT opposite! Beyond Upset~

Tammie78 — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 08:22:24 GMT

She already knows for sure it's a boy. it was not too early to tell.

Re: So it apprears I may actually have a HT opposite! Beyond Upset~

Gottohaveumboth — Fri, 04 Nov 2011 05:51:57 GMT

Is it the right time to tell the sex because they all start out looking the same and then they change. If it is human error they should atleast give you your money back or put your baby through college or something responsablity where it is desivered... by the way where did you go????

Good Luck hope its your girl, Icant imagine how you must feel..

Re: So it apprears I may actually have a HT opposite! Beyond Upset~

Havebluwantp1nktoo — Thu, 03 Nov 2011 11:58:19 GMT

makemehappy:
I am so sorry you've had to go through this. Seriously. Its so hard that you can't talk about it to your friends and family etc, that's the nature of HT I guess. You will probably love this baby boy more than anything as he's so special to have made it through all that. You will feel better in time but right now my heart goes out to you. This is not a disaster, you will have a healthy happy gorgeous bundle at the end of it, to love and adore. It will just take you a while longer until you get your girl, but you will get your girl. Sometimes things happen for a reason and although its not clear why at the time, I do believe everything works out for the best in the long run. You are very brave and I wish I knew you, to throw my arms around you. Thinking of you so much xxx

THIS!! What a great post!

I will also add though that right now I am sure you are devastated... I can't imagine going through IVF and paying all of that money when you could have just ttc the "old fashioned" way :( I want to do IVF/PGD in a couple of years and reading these PGD opposite stories scare me (not that having another boy is sooo awful, but paying all that money and going through all the physical stuff and emotions of IVF to not even get what you "paid for" is awful). I agree though that this baby boy was meant to be, and I'm sure he will bring you nothing but joy! :) Still, your fertility clinic should offer you a free PGD cycle after baby is born, something has to be done on their part!!

Re: So it apprears I may actually have a HT opposite! Beyond Upset~

praying4myprincess — Tue, 18 Oct 2011 22:25:58 GMT

I also agree with the above comments stay strong!

Re: So it apprears I may actually have a HT opposite! Beyond Upset~

3ForMe — Sun, 16 Oct 2011 01:48:32 GMT

SouthernRose:
You are so strong and I admire the way you are handling this news. You are carrying one very, very special baby boy

I totally agree. I can't imagine what you are going through, when going high tech this is something you certainly don't expect. I'm sorry this has happen to you and I'm glad your clinic is being supportive. You will get your girl in the future and you are also getting another amazing little boy.

Re: So it apprears I may actually have a HT opposite! Beyond Upset~

My Fabulous Children — Wed, 12 Oct 2011 02:41:47 GMT

WOW!!! I am so very sorry dear x

Re: So it apprears I may actually have a HT opposite! Beyond Upset~

familiesr4ever — Tue, 11 Oct 2011 20:37:38 GMT

makemehappy:
I am so sorry you've had to go through this. Seriously. Its so hard that you can't talk about it to your friends and family etc, that's the nature of HT I guess. You will probably love this baby boy more than anything as he's so special to have made it through all that. You will feel better in time but right now my heart goes out to you. This is not a disaster, you will have a healthy happy gorgeous bundle at the end of it, to love and adore. It will just take you a while longer until you get your girl, but you will get your girl. Sometimes things happen for a reason and although its not clear why at the time, I do believe everything works out for the best in the long run. You are very brave and I wish I knew you, to throw my arms around you. Thinking of you so much xxx

I wish I would have said this! You have a great support system here. Sending you my prayers.

Re: So it apprears I may actually have a HT opposite! Beyond Upset~

makemehappy — Tue, 11 Oct 2011 20:28:43 GMT

I am so sorry you've had to go through this. Seriously. Its so hard that you can't talk about it to your friends and family etc, that's the nature of HT I guess. You will probably love this baby boy more than anything as he's so special to have made it through all that. You will feel better in time but right now my heart goes out to you. This is not a disaster, you will have a healthy happy gorgeous bundle at the end of it, to love and adore. It will just take you a while longer until you get your girl, but you will get your girl. Sometimes things happen for a reason and although its not clear why at the time, I do believe everything works out for the best in the long run. You are very brave and I wish I knew you, to throw my arms around you. Thinking of you so much xxx

Re: So it apprears I may actually have a HT opposite! Beyond Upset~

USA MOMMY — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 13:37:01 GMT

Btw, did you do a fresh or frozen transfer? I am beyond words to console you. Your RE should step up and give you, your girl/ girls for free

Re: So it apprears I may actually have a HT opposite! Beyond Upset~

NYFamilyOfFiveRoses — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 01:39:03 GMT

From what you said, did they label the embryo wrong when they said "normal girl"? Like a pp said, can you cycle for free next time?

So sorry.

Re: So it apprears I may actually have a HT opposite! Beyond Upset~

hurdy_ven — Sun, 09 Oct 2011 03:46:17 GMT

WOW, I am sooo sorry you are going through this :( . I really hope you know that this little boy you are carrying must be VERY SPECIAL and meant to be, I mean what are the chances of this happening.

Re: So it apprears I may actually have a HT opposite! Beyond Upset~

Lilian78 — Sun, 09 Oct 2011 03:22:16 GMT

Wow, so sorry you're havint go through this

Re: So it apprears I may actually have a HT opposite! Beyond Upset~

Ilovebeingpregnant — Sat, 08 Oct 2011 15:01:40 GMT

I really think that we all have a purpose in this world as destiny to fullfill, whether we know it or not, I think your little boy will change alot of peoples lives, this little boy was meant to be born. I always drempt of boys but had 2 girls, now they are here I know why x

Re: So it apprears I may actually have a HT opposite! Beyond Upset~

onward&upward — Sat, 08 Oct 2011 13:31:37 GMT

Oh my word I'm so sorry that does look like a boy ((HUGS))

Re: So it apprears I may actually have a HT opposite! Beyond Upset~

Secretly sad — Sat, 08 Oct 2011 07:28:13 GMT

I am so sorry to read your story. Try not to despair though - I know this will be your 3rd child but you could still have a 4th??? It is a lot but it is still manageable. Some women in this board have 7,8 even 9 children!! I know it is easy for me to say this but I have 3 boys and I am considering going for my 4th. If you want something badly enough you won't let anything stand in your way. Good luck and stay strong, big hugs. Xxx