Gender Disappointment

Re: Wonder what it's like to NOT have GD.

pstar32 — Sat, 26 Nov 2011 02:18:24 GMT

Azuremyst:
prettyinpink18:
Azuremyst:
Hmmmm? I promise you girls sh!t and p!ss just like any boy. I don't give a hoot about frilly girly things but it seems like God gives us what we need, not what we want.
????? Not a helpful thing to say. Obviously the op does give a hoot about frilly, girly things hence her post about her GD over it.

Probably not, I feel bad for her.

Well I think it is kinda helpful, I feel the same as the poster, I LOVE my boys to death and would love to have no GD and would never replace one of them with a girl. But it is nice to get things into perspective, babies are babies, beautiful and messy:-) People are people, always wanting what we don't have, but it's ok. And I think the poster asks an excellent question. Hopefully we'll be able to answer it ourselves some day!!

Re: Wonder what it's like to NOT have GD.

Azuremyst — Fri, 25 Nov 2011 21:50:35 GMT

prettyinpink18:
Azuremyst:
Hmmmm? I promise you girls sh!t and p!ss just like any boy. I don't give a hoot about frilly girly things but it seems like God gives us what we need, not what we want.
????? Not a helpful thing to say. Obviously the op does give a hoot about frilly, girly things hence her post about her GD over it.

Probably not, I feel bad for her.

Re: Wonder what it's like to NOT have GD.

LoveMy3CutiesLB&H — Fri, 25 Nov 2011 03:07:43 GMT

I'm sorry you're hurting. Speaking for myself, I have been exactly where you are when I had my two boys, and even though I now have a daughter the hole that I labeled "gd" wasn't completely due to not having a daughter. Sometimes getting your dg still doesn't make everything feel complete. I am hoping and praying that whatever your future holds though (daughter or no daughter) you will find peace. Hugs!

Re: Wonder what it's like to NOT have GD.

prettyinpink18 — Fri, 25 Nov 2011 01:57:25 GMT

Azuremyst:
Hmmmm? I promise you girls sh!t and p!ss just like any boy. I don't give a hoot about frilly girly things but it seems like God gives us what we need, not what we want.

????? Not a helpful thing to say. Obviously the op does give a hoot about frilly, girly things hence her post about her GD over it.

Re: Wonder what it's like to NOT have GD.

Azuremyst — Fri, 25 Nov 2011 00:40:47 GMT

Hmmmm? I promise you girls sh!t and p!ss just like any boy. I don't give a hoot about frilly girly things but it seems like God gives us what we need, not what we want.

Re: Wonder what it's like to NOT have GD.

Maybeapinkbaby? — Thu, 24 Nov 2011 19:25:21 GMT

I would do anything not to have it! That's the one thing that would be better than having a daughter - to have never felt any gd with my 3 sons! I live them all so much - just wish my heart didn't constantly ache for the daughter that I now know I will never have - hugs to all that are hurting.

Re: Wonder what it's like to NOT have GD.

cowbell — Thu, 24 Nov 2011 19:16:49 GMT

Hugs. I can't imagine what it's like. I feels so intense.

Re: Wonder what it's like to NOT have GD.

Kylie3 — Thu, 24 Nov 2011 17:47:47 GMT

I wonder what it would be like to! :( Big hugs to you sweetie!

Re: Wonder what it's like to NOT have GD.

Praying for a Daughter — Thu, 24 Nov 2011 03:28:36 GMT

I hope all of us who are hoping for a certain gender get to experience that! Best wishes!

Re: Wonder what it's like to NOT have GD.

OnePairPlusOne — Thu, 24 Nov 2011 02:47:54 GMT

Hugs Mama!

Wonder what it's like to NOT have GD.

starlight1600 — Thu, 24 Nov 2011 01:51:03 GMT

Bet it's amazing.

No constant ache. No trying to avoid the girl's section so I don't have to see the little sundresses, the leggings, the dolls. No secretly resenting mamas with girls. No wondering if I'll ever feel complete.

Bet it's amazing.