Gender Disappointment

Re: Why???!!!

threesenuff4me — Sat, 19 Feb 2011 03:02:04 GMT

i want to delete my fb right now too! there's 10 flippin people pregnant on there and they're all finding out about the same flippin time what they're having and they're all going to be girls i just know it!!! and i just lost one last week too. i'm getting so pissed off the more i keep reading and signing on i can't stand it! i would send all of you wanting boys all of my blue dust just for a speck of pink!!! and if i see those monkeys again too mine probably will go soaring too

Re: Why???!!!

Liz (aka onedaymaybe) — Fri, 18 Feb 2011 18:15:48 GMT

Just want to send you hugs. I know the feeling very well. Ugh

Re: Why???!!!

Forever_Outnumbered — Fri, 18 Feb 2011 17:52:47 GMT

This is my sister all over. Not the nicest of people and looks down her nose at everyone! She has because that's what she wanted - grrr!!!

Re: Why???!!!

stelisa — Fri, 18 Feb 2011 17:23:54 GMT

I feel for you. I ask that question all the time. (But then I quickly have to answer that question with "hello Lisa? b/c you have DD3!!!" and then I get mad at myself for thinking that and then I feel guilty etc- UGH!) I like to think that those kind of people get what's coming to them. It's not that I necessarily wish evil on them, it's just that I think their bad behaviour will come back to bite them and me wishing it or not has no affect. (ie my prayer for a boy went unanwered so why would anything I wish for come true? it's just fluke)

My facebook moment was when my friend (who is lovely!) had her 2nd and had a boy after having a girl. I got tears in my eyes, and not of joy when I read it was a boy. My stomache hurt and I felt so ill. I couldn't even post a congrats!!!!

Good luck! I hope you get your little boy one day!

Lisa

Re: Why???!!!

somerlouise — Fri, 18 Feb 2011 08:35:31 GMT

I know what you mean. My DS1 has a friend he plays with a lot. I loathe this child's mother, she is so incredibly smug about her PP.

We were at a children's party, and one of the other mothers, who has 2 boys and then a girl, was saying how she really wanted a daughter when she was pregnant the third time, and had that child been a boy she would have probably gone on to try for a fourth time. Really honest if you ask me, and I knew just how she felt. Well my 'enemy' said that this was a horrible attitude, that she should be pleased with whatever she had etc etc..... very easy to say when you have one of each. Her final comment of 'Only the most shallow of people would care what they were having' made me snap and I will admit I told her to shut her mouth!

Re: Why???!!!

CAA0506 — Fri, 18 Feb 2011 05:50:50 GMT

I feel ya! My cousin who is the same age as me, has 1 son already like me, and is pregnant & due the same month as me, just found out she's having a GIRL...while I'm suffering with GD because I'm having another boy. It especially bothers me because this girl made my life hell growing up. Even though she's "family", she treated me like dirt, gossiped about me and smeared me to everyone behind my back...she's just NOT a nice person. I tried hard to be her friend too, and be there for her when I found out some people were being cruel to her at school. But she just snubbed me. And now, she gets the perfect pigeon pair and I don't. So I feel your pain! It's just soooo not fair.

P.S. I wanna KILL those damn monkies!!!

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mykiwibaby — Thu, 17 Feb 2011 23:46:24 GMT

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