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prayingforcj — Fri, 06 Apr 2012 11:19:34 GMT

hey belles my girls are 2 years apart!! Im so upset the 3rd baby will not be the same!! 3 years is a big difference in my eyes espically when the high school years come! I wanted only two years between them but its not up to me. I suppose i just have to accept it! Im also waiting till september so we can have a summer baby!! No winter babies for me too much sickness going around!

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Belles & Beaus — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 02:59:01 GMT

p.s. are any of your girls 3 years apart by any chance? I had it stuck in my head that my kids would be 2 years apart and I think that is one of the hardest things for me. I just hope they will still be close to one another (with a larger gap), since I don't have any choice in the matter.

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Belles & Beaus — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 02:56:59 GMT

Hey Praying! I'm glad you and your girls are doing well! DH and I finally made the decision to wait until September, regardless of whether or not I get the go-ahead from my docs. Luckily, my levels went down to an 8 last week. It's not the zero that I wanted but it means no chemo! I started AF last weekend and passed what looked to be tissue and some very large clots. The doctors think they missed it the first time and that's what all this craziness has been about. I get more bloodwork done this thurs and a u/s friday. I am just praying, praying, praying, my levels are down and my uterus is clear! Please do keep in touch and I will do the same!

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prayingforcj — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 02:11:40 GMT

Hey belles and beaus I am doing okay still no AF but I too am trying to drop a few pounds and just focus on the upcoming summer season!*! My girls look forward to going to the phildeliphia zoo and a trip to the beach! I will be watching your progress and def get in touch with you around september that will be our time to shine!!! We just have to have faith...Prayers....

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Belles & Beaus — Sat, 17 Mar 2012 06:20:09 GMT

Hey Praying, So, to make a long story short, I had bloodwork and a u/s this week that shows that my pregnancy may have been a partial molar. luckily, my hcg levels are now down to an 11, but if they climb I may need chemo. if that happens they make me wait a year from the time my levels reach zero to ttc. if they reach zero this week, I know they'll tell me no sooner than 6 months to ttc. so I may be right there with you in september. How are you doing? Hopefully better than I!

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prayingforcj — Mon, 12 Mar 2012 19:17:45 GMT

Hey that sounds great!!! Im hoping this works out for you this way! That would be great for you and your family. My girls are keeping me ery busy so I dont have a whole lot of time to plan. We will maybe ttc around august september. Im 3 weeks post m/c and everything is going okay. Im still just going day by day. Im looking forward to the Easter Holiday coming and spending time with family. Keep me posted girl!!! Good luck and im praying for you as well.

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Belles & Beaus — Sun, 04 Mar 2012 05:59:13 GMT

Yeah, I received similar answers from the Dr. that did my surgery as well. He basically made it seem as though I won't get any answers about anything unless I have 3 consecutive losses. I hope I never get to that place. You either! I suppose I was "lucky" in that my daughter never really understood I was pregnant. I know it must be harder to have to explain it to your other children. I hope it went smoothly if you decided to say anything since this post. As for me, I am now on the pill because my hormones were so out of whack. My body just never stopped bleeding and I do still have very low trace amounts of hcg in my system. (I'm 9 weeks post D&C as of yesterday.) The pill almost immediately stopped the bleeding and I am very grateful for that! I emailed my Dr. about the possibility of stopping the pill after this pack, having a period, and then trying If I ovulate. That would mean I could potentially be preggo again the beginning of April and have a Christmas baby. I thought that would be special since that is when we lost this one. Of course, I have to get the go-ahead, ovulate, get pregnant, and sustain the pregnancy. But, it's all in God's hands, I hope it's His will! Please keep me posted on your continued journey and I will do the same. Praying for you!!

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prayingforcj — Fri, 02 Mar 2012 01:30:48 GMT

The only thing the doc said was that its really not cause for to much concern. Easy for him to say!! He also said theres a 90 percent chanch it will not happen again. Not sure how he could know that. But all is moving forward here just taking it a day at a time. Its hard to tell my 3.5 year old she dosent say anything so I dont say anything to her about it. best wishes stay in touch!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Belles & Beaus — Mon, 27 Feb 2012 05:54:20 GMT

I am so so sorry. I honestly don't know what to say. What is going on with our group? Just a few months ago we were all helping each other during the whole swaying process and chatting about our excitement over our BFPs and now we keep getting the worst possible news. It is the most unnatural thing for a mother to lose a baby, and I am so sorry that you are going through it again. It is my and DH's anniversary today and we went to our favorite restaurant. The last time we were there we were celebrating the news of our July baby who is no longer with us. We started talking about our "future babies" and honestly the thought of being pregnant again scares me to death. I received a reminder call last week about a u/s appt this Monday. It would have been my 18 week u/s. I am thinking about still going since I have been having a burning sensation in my ovaries off and on over the last week or so, and I have been bleeding fairly heavily for the last 3 weeks. I'm just so tired of my body not healing and it is a constant reminder of what we lost. I hope you and your family are doing as best as can be under the circumstances and know that I am praying for you all. Do you have any idea what could be going on? Did the Dr. say anything? You didn't sway this time right? I am here if you need to talk and I am so sorry you are in my situation, I wouldn't wish this upon anyone.

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prayingforcj — Mon, 27 Feb 2012 01:04:07 GMT

hey belles and beaus well bad news I went to the doctors last friday and I lost this baby as well. What is going on? I was 12 weeks to the day and I started to miscarry that same night. I cant not beleive it. Im so shaken and unsure of what to do next. We are looking to maybe ttc in september, Its all in gods will and it will maybe come in his time not mine!! We are both on the same page again. Best wishes to you hope you are doing well. God bless you and your family

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prayingforcj — Sat, 11 Feb 2012 01:27:59 GMT

Maybe it could be a bouncng baby boy!! That would be great but if we add another sister for my girls im okay for sure with that now!! I had my first checkup today and im measuring 12 weeks to the day. So theres so much hope for you to be right back where you should be. I look at it like its the same baby we are just waiting a little bit longer to have them!! If that makes sense. keep me posted on your attempts.

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Belles & Beaus — Thu, 09 Feb 2012 02:37:32 GMT

LoveMy3CutiesLB&H:
I've been thinking about you! How have you been?

I'm going to message you on fb miss Megan :)

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Belles & Beaus — Thu, 09 Feb 2012 02:36:55 GMT

prayingforcj:
I hear you just found out at christmas that my sister in law is expecting a little boy in may!!! I cant help but be envious of that!! Although I have two girls I feel like the m/c cured my gender needs too! This time when I found out I was pregnant every day that goes by I am waiting for somthing to go wrong so its hard to get past these things that happen but I am postive you will be expecting sooner than you think!! I was happy I got to experence the excitement of a postive pregnancy test for the fourth time that of course is always great. So hang in there and get your body back to "normal" and try again Things will ease with time its the only medicine for somthing like this ALL THE BEST

Don't be too envious just yet! You may have a little boy in there too! I definitely can't wait till my body is back to normal and I can share in the same joys of pregnancy. Please keep me posted on all the happenings! :)

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LoveMy3CutiesLB&H — Wed, 08 Feb 2012 22:42:03 GMT

I've been thinking about you! How have you been?

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prayingforcj — Thu, 02 Feb 2012 22:47:24 GMT

I hear you just found out at christmas that my sister in law is expecting a little boy in may!!! I cant help but be envious of that!! Although I have two girls I feel like the m/c cured my gender needs too! This time when I found out I was pregnant every day that goes by I am waiting for somthing to go wrong so its hard to get past these things that happen but I am postive you will be expecting sooner than you think!! I was happy I got to experence the excitement of a postive pregnancy test for the fourth time that of course is always great. So hang in there and get your body back to "normal" and try again Things will ease with time its the only medicine for somthing like this ALL THE BEST