http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/175.aspxenCommunityServer 2007.1 (Debug Build: 20917.1142)http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/1997343.aspxTue, 07 Dec 2010 15:56:21 GMT98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:1997343Kitten0http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/1997343.aspxhttp://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=175&PostID=1997343<p><BLOCKQUOTE><div><img src="/cs/Themes/default/images/icon-quote.gif"> <strong>Happiness182:</strong></div><div></p><p>Just thought I would update:&nbsp; 9 dpo and 2 BFN. I know it is still early, but I&#39;m ttc a girl and those are supposed to have early BFP, right?&nbsp; I am so tempted just to throw swaying out the window but I think I will be kicking myself if I do.<img src="http://www.ingender.com/cs/emoticons/Confused-Huh.gif" alt="Confused Huh?" /></p><p></div></BLOCKQUOTE> I don&#39;t think there is much truth to an early BFP = girl.&nbsp; I know a lot of women who haven&#39;t gotten their BFP until 13 or 14 dpo or even later and have gone on to have girls. I think you are still in.&nbsp; As for the swaying part - you should ask yourself - do you just want to get pg right now? &nbsp; If so, maybe it&#39;s time to start throwing away part of your sway.&nbsp; Good luck!<br /></p><p><br /></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/1996474.aspxMon, 06 Dec 2010 20:19:55 GMT98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:1996474Happiness1820http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/1996474.aspxhttp://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=175&PostID=1996474<p>Just thought I would update:&nbsp; 9 dpo and 2 BFN. I know it is still early, but I&#39;m ttc a girl and those are supposed to have early BFP, right?&nbsp; I am so tempted just to throw swaying out the window but I think I will be kicking myself if I do.<img src="http://www.ingender.com/cs/emoticons/Confused-Huh.gif" alt="Confused Huh?" /></p>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/1986196.aspxSun, 28 Nov 2010 23:30:34 GMT98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:1986196Happiness1820http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/1986196.aspxhttp://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=175&PostID=1986196<p>Well its taken me the better part of 2 years to convince my husband to try for another baby. He thinks we are too old. He doesn&#39;t want to have kids still in the house in his 60&#39;s. So I was very sad to have to watch every month my ovulation come and go. There were times I wanted to trick him and say it was accidental but that wouldnt&#39; have been fair to him. Very slowly he has come around and he&#39;s still got his days when he wonders if we are doing the right thing.&nbsp; I feel guilty for pushing for this baby because it is my idea (not his). But I know I will regret it if I dont&#39; at least try. Now I am worried about&nbsp; my age. <img src="http://www.ingender.com/cs/emoticons/pray.gif" alt="Pray" /></p>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/1985259.aspxSun, 28 Nov 2010 03:54:08 GMT98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:1985259WestlakeGal0http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/1985259.aspxhttp://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=175&PostID=1985259<p>OK I will go to that website when my DH cannot catch me (like right now) and then I will read the book in secret.&nbsp; I am always happy to take your suggestions because thus far they have all been good and of course at the end of the day I would much rather have a baby of my own biology than someone whose biology and genetics are big question marks.&nbsp; I am definitely getting beaten down and when I told your recent story to my DH who then called a friend of his here in the Valley and they talked (and I don&#39;t think his friend who is also a Dr. knew you) he said to me that while you probably do not agree he thinks that given the pressure you were under at the same you were pregnant if I understood you correctly - your DH was fired, etc., etc. - he felt that may have been a very small part in the XO not turning, in other words, if life had been normal you would have had a better chance - but am glad that both of us are not suffering from the &quot;old egg&quot; syndrome - now I have to find that website (have an opportunity tomorrow) and then find that book all on the down low IFYOUKWIM.&nbsp; Hope your Thanksgiving was Happy and that you had your family and friends with you - this gets harder to get over I tell the master at disappointment!!&nbsp; </p>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/1968813.aspxTue, 16 Nov 2010 00:06:17 GMT98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:1968813Adnil0http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/1968813.aspxhttp://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=175&PostID=1968813<p>I checked out that site last year.&nbsp; It was interesting and gave hope to hear that alot of women became pregnant with secondary infertility.&nbsp; Unfortunately it didn&#39;t help me.&nbsp; I still struggle with it&#39;s a girl I want not just another baby.&nbsp; I hope we can both find our path to contentment.&nbsp; Love ya Cyn!</p>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/1966621.aspxSun, 14 Nov 2010 17:15:57 GMT98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:1966621luv4boys0http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/1966621.aspxhttp://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=175&PostID=1966621I am reading Inconceivable and perusing the www.fertileheart.com website. Some of it is not consistent with my beliefs but a lot of it makes a lot of sense. I did not get any response to a similar post on the infertility thread, so I thought of a few of my friends here. The author got pg at 42 after secondary infertility.