http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/172.aspxWelcome new members! Please stop by and introduce yourself!enCommunityServer 2007.1 (Debug Build: 20917.1142)http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/2292894.aspxMon, 16 Apr 2012 16:48:12 GMT98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:2292894kobra0http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/2292894.aspxhttp://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=172&PostID=2292894<p>&nbsp;I see a lot of women on this site scared of the same thing you are - worrying they won&#39;t be able to bond with the baby of undesired gender. My advice is to wait till the baby is born.Kids are amazing and making all the magic happen themselves! They just love you in return - no matter what - it does not matter to them whether you are pretty or not, whether you are rich or poor, what gender you are, etc... they just LOVE YOU - and it&#39;s very hard not to love them back in return. It&#39;s almost like they are born genderless - my second DD still is just a baby - not a baby boy and not a baby girl- she is just a little baby that loves me with all her little heart and runs to meet me when I come home. If she notices me looking at her, she gets this sparkle in her eyes and sends me her big smile.</p><p>So, try not to think about the fact that you are having a baby girl - try to just think that there soon be one more person in this world that will love you and your husband unconditionally for you are her parents. Good luck to you with your pregnancy.<br /></p>http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/2288644.aspxTue, 10 Apr 2012 22:11:31 GMT98f8303f-e5ee-4260-b4ef-b1490162acf4:2288644samuraixamateur0http://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/thread/2288644.aspxhttp://www.in-gender.com/cs/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=172&PostID=2288644<p>&nbsp;I just found this website from another, something like yahoo answers. I&#39;m a first time mom to be and me and DH are completely devestated that we&#39;re having a girl. This is our first, and i&#39;ve never in my life wanted a girl nevermind kids, i just wanted kids as i started to get older. But, i always saw my family being a big brother and a little sister, so.. maybe our second will be a boy.. but what if its not?&nbsp;</p><p>My anxiety levels are skyrocketting and i cry for no reason, im scared that i won&#39;t be able to love my daughter the way someone would if they wanted a girl. Yeah.. i want a happy baby but i cant make myself happy about having a girl, we cant even name her cause we didnt want a girl, and i HATE when other people are happy for me.&nbsp;</p><p>But in hopes to find help, I&#39;ve come to this website, to seek something that will help me feel better for the sake of my daughter, and my family. <br /></p>