I can tell you from experience that having a girl doesn't stop the stupid people from making the stupid comments. MIne went from poor you with three boys to awe poor girl. Three brothers? She is going to have it so rough. She is going to be a tomboy. blah blah blah Which I know you would be more than happy to hear that right now. But my point is that some people just have to say something. I will keep you in my prayers and I will be praying for you to hear girl. Then you can hear the tomboy comments too.
this is what I hear now to try to make me feel better, that a little girl wouldnt be a girly girl anyways just a boy with a vagina (yes I hear this alot and the first time I was beyond shock to reply) but they dont know, they arent qualified to make any comments because they arent an all boy mom kwim? now if an all boy mom tells you how horrible it is to have all boys then that should hurt than someone with one boy kwim? so I really do think that people just feel obligated to say something and its normally the rude people that feel they must be heard.
I knew this one lady that had one girl and then a boy and her little boy was horrible and she would always make excuses like "he is all boy" and "he's just being a boy" and then made comments that she didnt know how I survived with 3 boys, she would go insane, well one day when her little boy was being bad and she made a stupid comment about how he was a boy, I told her "so he is a boy, that doesnt mean you let them do anything and everything they want, you discipline them!" and then I walked away, but I think thats just an excuse that people use about how horrible boys are, that boys are going to wrestle and jump off furniture and they just roll their eyes saying that their just being a boy well stop them, discipline them, I know girls that do the same thing, they wrestle and jump off the furniture and then mom makes them go sit in time out because "girls arent supposed to be acting that way" well neither are boys! its the whole stereotyping thing that people tend to be scared of boys and think they are all horrible. if I am making any sense lol