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NTJ update- no transfer!

minime

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Just thinking of you and hoping you are well.  You must be gearing up for ER?  Good Luck and post when you can!!!  TJ

 

 

IUI/MSClomid 9/06 BFN


IUI/MS Injectible Repronex 10/06 Cancelled


IVF/PGD/MS Converted cycle 10/06 BFN


FET 12/06 BFN


 IVF/MS 2/07 +BFP TWIN GIRLS           


 * All Cycles done at GIVF*



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Yes, let us know how things are going so we can cheer you on!
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#1 IVF/MS/PGD, cycle cancelled
#2 IVF/MS/PGD, BFN
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wishing you a big GL wherever you are in your cycle.
 

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thinking of you and wishing you luck!

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minime

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We haven't forgot about you and I hope you have not forgotten about us!!! Miss you and hoping all is okay!!!  Just wave a cyber arm at least to let us know you are okay!!! xoTJ

IUI/MSClomid 9/06 BFN


IUI/MS Injectible Repronex 10/06 Cancelled


IVF/PGD/MS Converted cycle 10/06 BFN


FET 12/06 BFN


 IVF/MS 2/07 +BFP TWIN GIRLS           


 * All Cycles done at GIVF*



Baby BoyBaby Boy Baby GirlBaby Girl


 

 

ntj

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Thanks ladies, I really appreciate your support.

Here is my update:

Eggs Retrieved: 14

Eggs Fertilized: 11

Day3 Report:

Four embryos were dead or less than 5 cells…so no PGD for those embryos.

Out of remaining 7 embryos, one was at 8 cells stage, 3 were at 7 cells & 3 were at 5 cells stage.

Day5 PGD Report:

Four males & 2 females!! One was undetermined.

All 4 male and 2 female embryos were abnormal & top of that out of those 6 embryos none reached at Blastocyst stage!!So,NO TRANSFER for me!!!!!

I had notion that I was ready for every outcome in this cycle…but clearly not for this. In my previous cycle I had 6 normal male embryos (blasts) & none of them was abnormal. At this point, I am shocked! In such a short period of time, I transformed into completely indifferent & infertile woman with max. no. of abnormal genes! Everybody at the clinic tried to explain me that its normal to have these kinds of results…. there were no such issue that this time embryologist was different, protocol dosage were not well adjusted & lab results will possibly go wrong!! One part of me really wants to believe all this but what if one or all of these things were true! PGD accuracy for aneuploidy is only 90% so, isn’t there a great possibility that out of those 6 abnormal, one was normal! I am not sure why any of them didn’t reach to blast this time…. maybe this time PGD was performed by different embryologist with less optimal skills….

I have great sympathy for those who got negative or no transfer in June cycle group. Cheers for those who got positive.

I know women on this board are so graceful & taking things easily even in the worst situations. For me, things are not simple for many reasons. I feel like that my body is so messed up with all those crazy hormones. I am financially and emotionally broken. It will sure take some time to think about my next step. Trying to stop ramble and moving on….

 

IVF/MS/PGD cycles(Fresh & FET) in 2006...All embryos PGD normal,No Implantation!
Fresh IVF/PGD cycle in June 2007...All embryos PGD abnormal,No Transfer!
 

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Sad Crying I'm so sorry.  I know my words aren't much help esp since we don't know each other, but like I've said before everyone's journey has been a part of mine.  I understand more than ever before what emotions go into this.  I am so saddened by the amount of no transfers.  it's really heart breaking for me.  I just wanted all of us to finish together.

did you go the same clinic all these times?  would you be willing to do it again and find a new one? 

Again my thoughts and prayers are with you.  I hope you find peace soon.
 

Carrie
DS 10-08-03
DS 01-18-06


 

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goodness ntj, i had hoped you were out there somewhere waiting for your bfp. my thoughts and prayers are with you.  even though it didn't work for me i still wanted the best for TEAM PINK. no need to handle this with grace...vent and rant as long as you want. we're all hear to listen and offer support.

praying for you and yours....CD

IVF/PGD June 2007, no healthy females
IVF/PGD #2 -- transferred 1 hatching blast on 8/17



 

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I'm also very sorry to read your post. Know that we are all here for you.

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so sorry NTJ. You are a trooper! pm me anytime you want to talk...

Jodi, Mom to 4 little boys


3/07 MS/IVF-17 fertilized-RE said NO Transfer due to slow embryo growth


6/07 ivf/pgd, NO transfer, normal female arrested!


decided to go low tech....6/08 TBM "opposite" born, my little sweetheart


2010 here we come, what will we do next??

 

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You have a every right to be mad, angry, upset, and pissed off that your cycle did not goes as you had hoped!!  That is exactly how I would feel as well.  So, please know that you can vent, rant, and let out your emotions here!!!  I am sorry things turned out that way and it just is not fair!   It is devastating, frustrating, disappointing, and seems to make no sense that your cycle turned out this way.   I am very very sorry and you are in my thoughts as you cope with this horrible outcome and try to figure out which way to go next.    Please know that you are safe here to post how you feel no matter how you feel because I can imagine your feelings have been felt by others at one time or someone else may be feeling that way but not have the courage to be honest and open as you have been....   Big Hugs and Love, TJ

IUI/MSClomid 9/06 BFN


IUI/MS Injectible Repronex 10/06 Cancelled


IVF/PGD/MS Converted cycle 10/06 BFN


FET 12/06 BFN


 IVF/MS 2/07 +BFP TWIN GIRLS           


 * All Cycles done at GIVF*



Baby BoyBaby Boy Baby GirlBaby Girl


 

 

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NTJ, I'm so sorry, ditto everything TJ said.  I wish these things made better sense and there was some sort of rational answer to explain it.  Lots of hugs, I wish we could all get together for some numbing tequila shots.  We are here for you as you try to figure out what your next step is. 

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wanting pink

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NTJ,

I'm so sorry you didn't have anything to transfer.  As PPs said, let out your emotions here.  It just seems so unfair.

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Baby Boy 2006

#1 IVF/MS/PGD, cycle cancelled
#2 IVF/MS/PGD, BFN
#3 IVF/MS/PGD, chemical
#4 IVF/PGD, BFP, M/C 9w5d

Baby Boy 2010

Although it's hard, the time has come to let go of the dream...

 

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Dear NTJ, I'm so sorry hearing your update. This is truly the biggest fear for all of us chasing the gender dream. Take your time thinking things over. Maybe trying naturally is an option? Try giving yourself a treat. You deserve it.

Vera

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KD , Mommy to 2 amazing Baby Boy Baby Boy and precious twin Baby GirlBaby Girl, thanks to Dr. Potter!

 
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