this is unrelated to lime douche before or after. buti just wanted to say i know it's hard to think about maybe having a BFN- regardless of swaying stuff. i faced the same feelings this month. when i was considering high tech, i've was waiting to TTC for about 8 mo's now. and i'm 38. and i want 2 more. so i know i have worried a little about the douches and i wasn't sure i could do the full extreme GS with the centrifuge and diva cup b/c i really need to get PG right away.
Jen, I completely agree with you 100% and I think the rules have got to be different for anyone over 35 who needs to be pregnant quickly. I don't mean to take getting BFN's lightly at all and I totally understand about the time pressure, but the PP is younger and does have a few months to try. I am 38 also, almost 39, and I did not do any douches or timing at all, I just did a restricted diet, weight loss, and a few supps.
Anyone over 35 should join us in Mature Mamas for TTC support from other ladies who know what that dang ticking bio clock sounds like!!