Well we wanted to be surprised, but I think I knew in my gut the whole time it was a little man. I have fallen instantly in love and he definatley is the cutest NEWBORN that we've had- but of course I think all my guys are cute!!! I was right it was better for me to find out when he was born- worst labor ever, so recovery has been tough- but I have noticed I am avoiding interacting with people, you know making phone calls and having visitors and I was blaming it on the exhaustion and it hit me today that I just am not ready for the insensitive things people will say- already had a woman at son's school today offer me her sympathy that she "sighed" when she heard it was another boy. I know I just need thick skin, and I am sure it is the hormones but this fear of other people feeling like my beautfiul boy was a failure is breaking my heart.
Uh oh hubby here!!!
Peace to you all and congratulations!!
PP