did u tell anyone yet......

hey ladies,did u tell your families yet?

I havent told anyone yet,not even mom or hubby.

everyone was so heartbroken with my last chemical,that I decided to keep the news to myself,untill my first doc apptmt.

If everything is okay,then ill tell and we'll celebrate.

If God forbid its not okay,then ill just keep it to myself and u girls.

Too many people know for my liking.

I only wanted df, dd , my mom and his mom to know..

but he can't seem to keep it quiet at all!

He is 100% positive that THIS bean will stick! that this is our lucky bean! THE one! He refuses to think anything will happen..

He even told the guy at the cash at subway that we were pg!!

I hate it.. I just want it to be kept quiet till I know for sure our little bean is here to stay kwim?

I know what u mean,thats why Im not telling DH,

he cant keep a secret,and has a big mouth..

Thats just what happened with my chemical pregnancy,and poor hubby I blamed him for it,I told him its his fault coz he talked too much about it to everyone,and he jinxed it.I was soooo angry at him,so this month Ive decided to play it safe

Umm, yeah, I've told too many people already. DH doesn't want his parents or anyone to know until 12 weeks. However, if I did have a miscarriage his parents would have to know b/c we would be going to the  Dr's a few times for blood work etc. They are the ones that would be watching our girls. They live within a 3min walk of us so not many secrets there! I've told my sis. in WA and my cousin who is newly preg. she will be watching my girls for my first appt. (8wks) Then of course I told my mom friends - I don't care if they know. Most of them have been through losses too. I guess I just wouldn't want neighbors to know or people that are skeptical of people with larger families. THAT bothers me. Why can't people be happy when someone is preg. Babies are a miracle. Some of my old co-workers were rather judgemental-that's life I guess, gotta have a tough skin. Dh would kill me if he knew how many people I've told!