Guys, you aren't clicking the button HARD ENOUGH.
J/K, I am trying to figure this out. There are 12 people with messages stuck in the "email queue" that have failed repeatedly to go out. Reddcin, you have 27. Carey, you only have 2 -- if you are subscribed to some forums i would expect there to be more than 2 messages, so it looks like some have gone out to you but didn't make it.
If you have some sort of spam thing running, make sure you whitelist in-gender.com or maureen@in-gender.com, and check in your junk mail to make sure messages aren't going there.
Also, some large email providers are notorious for rejecting valid email, such as AOL.