So sorry.

I am so sorry.   Of course you are sad, she was a part of you.  I will be keeping positive thoughts for your little girl that she continues to grow and grow.

I am so very sorry!!!!!!!!! Hang in there.

 Lisa,

  I am so sorry for your loss....I feel horrible. I am so glad that your baby girl looks so PERFECT!!! I also believe that your baby girl has a little angel sister that will protect her and your family forever!!!!!!! I know that you never let yourself get used to the idea of twins but losing a baby is all the same...take time to grieve her but know that you are very blessed and that your baby girl is growing so strong and will be in your arms before you know it!!! I am so happy for you and so sad for you all at the same time!!!!!!!

Congratulations on your PERFECT baby girl!!!!

I am so sorry, Lisa.

Sorry to hear that the other little peanut did not hang on....   I hope the rest of the pregnancy is a breeze. TJ

 I'm so sorry for your loss. I, too, have lost one twin, and went on to carry the other to term. He is now a very rambunctious 7 yr old. I never expected twins at all, but was devastated that one didn't make it. Let me know if you want to talk. ((HUGS))

Lisa, I'm sorry you had such sad news. I hope this is the end of the roller coaster for you, and it is nothing but smooth sailing throughout your pregnancy.  

I get it.  I really do.  From the beginning, when we transferred two, I had to root for two.  Yes, deep down, I know that a singleton is what our family needs in terms of sanity, but when I made the conscious decision to put back two, I could not cheer for just one.  They were both babies and they were both mine and I loved them both dearly.  And I did.  Now I am being told that due to my whacked out numbers for a week and then having them recover, it most likely means both took and one was struggling, causing the nasty number game and now one is going strong.  That makes me sad in a way that one of them tried and failed.  And it makes me relieved in a way because thank God I didn't do a SET with the one that failed.  My first u/s is next week and I'm wondering if the first one will even have a sac, etc.  I'm trying to be upbeat and cheerful for my one still growing, but I can't help but worry, if one stopped, maybe the other will too. 

So I understand, I really do. 

Lisa- I am so sorry to hear that your twin baby did not make it. 

I'm sending you a big cyber hug! You had a fighter there but God had other plans for her. She is watching over your family right now....

I am sorry to hear that one of your precious little twins did not make it

My youngest had a twin who didn't make it, so I certainly understand what you are feeling even though it would have been more than you bargained for. Congrats on your healthy baby girl!!!!!!!!!!!! 

"The truth is, I only wanted one, but not for it to happen like this."

Exactly, that says it all. {hugs} We know, honey, and we're all sad for the little bean that tried to make it even as we're so happy for the miracle that thrives inside you.

WWP