It's official, after some weeks where I kept it to myself and tried not to freak out about it (I have several failed MS attempts behind me, so a low-tech BFP scared me a bit) I'm ready to tell you about my attempt. I'm due in April, by the way.
Supplements for me: Cranberry, folic acid, cal/mag and aspartame, my pH was around 5, it would not go down to 4,5
supplements for DH: Cranberry, cal/mag, licorice root and aspartame, DH's PH before we put the lime in was 8 and after the lime 4,5-5 (my PH strips were difficult to read) Before he started the supplements his PH was between 9-10.
DH abstained for 10-14 days (can't remember exactly) we did TBM/Lime, I douched before and also used canola oil finger (I think that is what helped me get pg, we tried several times without and ended up with BFN's) we did the TBM on O day and another TBM the day after O (tried TBM/O+12 all the other attempts, didn't work for me). I put a little bit of lime douche in after ½ hour but I then fell asleep before the 4 hours, so I didn't do the lime tampon, BIG mistake, I know! I O'ed during the new moon.
so what do you think, do I have a chance of getting my little DD?
Thanks to Tamara for gathering all the info here, couldn't have done this without the info on this site.