I have red dots too on the belly... I thought I was having an allergic reaction to something and they are small but very bright red. I didn't know they had anything to do with gender, actually I didn't know that it was even common in pregnancy - I just thought it was just me.... they say I'm having a boy so I'm not sure if has anything to do with gender or not, but I definately have these spots. I wonder if there's a difference between the color or size of dots maybe???