Good luck, hope you hear pink!

 Any updates.....hoping that you heard pink!!!

Just wondering how it all went...hope you are okay...

 Sending some pink dust your way!

Sorry for being so long in getting the result to you but I was away from home last night. As you might have guessed already by the fact that I'm not yippeeing all over the place, we found out that it's another boy. She went straight to the toilet shot and as soon as I saw it I realised what she was showing me - she pointed out his penis and also the testicles and then showed me where the cord was so there's no chance of it being a mistake. I was pretty gutted when I saw to tell the truth. DH looked at me afterwards and asked if I was okay and I said yes of course but I don't think I was. I was hoping so much for them to say girl and it was made worse by the fact that the receptionist had her daughter in helping her for the day who was amazingly sweet and looked just like her mum. Perfect timing    We told no one but just spent the day talking about it. I had a little cry and felt better afterwards. It wasn’t so much disappointment that it’s a boy but it was disappointment that my dream of having my darling daughter has gone and now I’m worried about whether I will ever have her. Seeing little girls out and about in town afterwards just made me want to cry even more. I have to see them of course but I just wish I knew how I stop feeling so gutted about not having one and how on earth do I now face my friend's little girls and my (horrible) SIL's daughter?  It’s going to kill me.

I know that when he’s here, I will love him so much and I will love seeing my boys together but I don't want people feeling sorry for me that I don’t have a daughter. It’s weird as I’m not normally the sort of person that worries about what people think of her but with this I am. Maybe it’s because I kind of feel a bit sorry for myself. I wish I could stop feeling this way

Oh sweetie - I'm so sorry you didn't hear girl!  There are so many wonderful things about brothers - you will learn it in time!  We are all here for you!  I remember thinking when I found out that my 4th was my 4th boy - HE chose ME to be his mom - that helped ALOT on the 'bad' days - and when it came time to decorating his nursery - that also helped because I found a theme I truly loved - Snoopy - and just went crazy with it.  Then my little Evan started to become more my BABY - and just not another boy...  In the meantime - if you need anything - I'm here for you!!!  {{{HUGS}}}

I'm so sorry you didn't get your girl... Last time around I wanted a lil girl also... when the tech said boy... I was kinda in disbelief... now that we have him and I see how my boys are together I realize he was just what we needed... God knew better than me.... no surprise there.

Congratulations on your new little man... I'm sure you'll find out he's exactly what you needed!

 Aw, I'm sorry.  Take some time to grieve.  You will feel a little better each day, I promise.  There will be a time when you look at your two little guys and know that you wouldn't have it any other way...      

I could not agree MORE with the PPs.  I was feeling all your feelings when we found out DS2 was a he.  It's so true how he picked ME to be his mom.....that is beautiful!!  Just know that so many women have felt exactly like you do now.  It will get better (((hugs)))

Kasey

 I'm sorry you didn't hear girl, I hope you can feel better soon. I just wanted to say that there are so many wonderful things about having 2 boys - my boys have a similar age gap as yours and they are such good friends now - they play together, laugh together, are incredibly protective of each other and love each other so much. Like you said you can have a third baby, I really hope you get your little girl one day and it will be so special for her to have 2 lovely big brothers to look after her. I know that you will love your new little guy as soon as you see him but I hope that you will feel happier in a few days and can enjoy the rest of your pregnancy. CJ x

I am sorry you are feeling sad. I know you wanted to hear pink today, but it really is alot of fun to have the same 'flavoured' kids! So, CONGRATS on your sweet new baby boy! When I was at the store this morning I saw two little boys ( I assume brothers) in a grocery cart and they were just so adorable and they looked like they were the best of buddies. It was so cute. I hope you feel better soon and it won't be too long before you get your little girl too. (((hugs)))

dj1282:

I'm so sorry you didn't get your girl... Last time around I wanted a lil girl also... when the tech said boy... I was kinda in disbelief... now that we have him and I see how my boys are together I realize he was just what we needed... God knew better than me.... no surprise there.

That is so true for me, too.  I originally thought I wanted baby #2 to be a girl, but now I am so glad that he is a boy.  I couldn't have planned things any better.  I LOVE that my boys have a brother close in age.  That's not to say I felt this way right after the u/s!  I felt just like you do.  I know it's hard, but trust me, this will get better in time.

Awww HUGS!!!

Big HUGS!  

Congrats on the new little boy you're growing!  I know you were hoping for a girl, but you are going to have so much fun with 2 little boys:)  And the silver lining- you may get to have a third child!