I had a miscarriage at the end of last week.  I thought I was pg but had not confirmed it with a test.  I was going to test on my day to sleep in so my dh wouldn't know.  I want to tell him I'm pg in a special way for the last one.  I'm trying not to be sad.  A friend told me that it is ridiculous that I"m sad and I didn't even know I was pg.  If I stay busy I keep my mind off of it. Needless to say this is why I have not been posting much lately.  I know that this happened for a reason.  I'm glad that I had not told anyone and then had to go through the pain of telling people what happened.   

Oh hun....(((HUGS)))  I am sorry that this has happened-I was wondering about you!  Unfortunately your friend isnt being very supportive for you right now--it shouldn't matter if you confirmed it with a test or not--we know our bodies and you were pretty sure that you were pregnant, so it hurts all the same, no matter how far along you were--you were pregnant and you have suffered a loss.  I was in your EXACT position a few years ago...and it did hurt and I too had a friend like yours--my friend had never been through any type of loss or ever really had to "try" to get pregnant, so she had no clue.

Take the time that you need and just know that we are here for you!

I'm so sorry, Sweet-Tart.  Unfortunately, people who have never been in our awful club (M/C survivors) have no clue how we feel!  But so many of us her at IG do, and every loss is heartbreaking.  Good luck to you in your TTC journey.

I'm sorry sweetie!  Big, Big hugs!

I'm sorry for your loss.

 So sorry, sweet-tart, lots of hugs to you.

Thanks guys.  I just don't understand what happened.  My Dr said that there was nothing I did to cause it and nothing I could have done to prevent it but I can't help but wonder. 

 I'm so sorry for you loss. I know both times I've had a mc I've wondered why it happened too and thought about everything I did while pregnant.  I think that's a normal way to feel.  Your Dr is right though.  It was nothing you did and sadly there's no way to prevent them from happening.  Again, I'm so sorry and I'll be thinking of you.   

i am so so sorry.