yes! i was a military wife for 8 long years. i got 1 ultrasound! one at 12 weeks. there was no finding out the gender. heck it was 12 weeks before i was even sure if i had a viable pregnancy. i hear ya hun. everytime i complained i was told, "if we wanted him to have a family we would have issued him one." you are stronger then me hun, im a civilian wife now, i couldn't handle it. bless you