Swaying after tragic loss. Some questions.

Hi there ladies, ( A little background and hello) I am from Australia, Sydney! I used to frequent this site often, but after my 3rd son was born and falling pregnant again quickly, but then losing my little boy at 19 weeks, I haven't visited. Alas I am back, all I can think about is being pregnant again, I am honestly so depressed right now and falling pregnant will give me something to obsess on instead of my loss. So I have naturally conceived 4 boys, only one swaying but it was a crappy sway. I honestly felt a massive need for a little girl but after the loss of my baby only 4 weeks ago! I honestly don't care what the gender is, as long as my baby comes home from the hospital alive and healthy . I couldn't give a hoot about weather or not it has a penis. It has really showed me what I want and I didn't even know I wanted it. In saying that we do have 3 boys so see no harm in swaying for a little girl, due to the fact we don't have one but would be 100% happy with a healthy baby of any gender even if it has both I don't care. The reason for swaying is to take my mind off my son, and we were going to sway before we had Thomas. I am not doing anything for a few weeks until we get the autopsy results and get my test results back and if everything is ok then try. I am one of the lucky ones, very lucky even with only half of my anatomy (one tube and ovary only) I seem to fall quiet easily. I have been preggers 6 times after I lost my tube, all in the first 3 months of trying and 2 wows. Seems I have a few angels

Some how I lost the rest of my post. Sorry. To cut it short my main question in what appetite suppressants can you use when trying for a Girl????? Thanks ladies I am hoping to make a few friends on here, during my journey for a rainbow baby. xoxo

First, I'm so terribly sorry for your precious boy... I can't imagine that heartbreak and like most ms it's my worst fear! I hope when you get results back it helps with healing and closure! Next, I lost two in a row while swaying for a son but even before that I decided not to try unless I was happy with dd3. Then losing two in a row I couldn't help but to feel so sad and guilty. It was unexplained and I know mc's just happen but still... Like you I thought it can't hurt to try for something different all the while knowing if I do indeed get dd3 I'll be just as delighted! As for the appetite suppressants, as long as you stay away from caffine and make sure they don't contain any vitamins or minerals except maybe calcium I should think any would be suitable. Good luck on your TTC journey and with the healing from your loss!

Thank you for replying babybluex32!