It is exciting when you reach a place of boy/girl doesnt matter :) I didnt experience this with DD. I was convinced she was a he and even after the 16 week clear as day three lines I post on IG begging for anyone to tell me that wasnt a girl. So i told DH it's nice to not be so naive and stupid this time around (although im convincing myself it's a girl) I wonder if moms can stop themselves from doing that? lol.
I own a business and just had a possible future client & a customer come in and they each had all girls. Ranged from 10- to teens. So nice to see. Gave me goosey bumps watching them. They commented on how you cant even tell Im pregnant. I was waiting for the question "what are you having?" but atlas wasnt asked... I wonder if some women just know that's a crazy ridiculous stupid question to ask a stranger? because thats the second time in a week someone knew I was expecting and didnt ask and it was soooo nice! I dont ask anyone I know is pregnant stranger or not. I dont think it is a fair question to bring up incase someone has GD fears etc.
It was so frustrating when we got there and they were closed. No call either when they said they "have been trying to call us for days" such lies. But firday the 13th may bring us luck and we will return to the place where we found out DD was gonna be a little girl. Where we cried and argued infront of the tech :( and cried the whole way home. Yes DH cried. I just dont want that energy this time around from that space. Positive thoughts!
I have the boxes all set up! Two white boxes.... the onesies are folded so when we open it says "Little brother" or "Little sister" right on top. So cute.
Im looking at the little sister one and i love it becaues it matches DD's older sister shirt. The little brother one is all boy and blue lol. I find myself leaning pink and not minding at all. Everyone else in my life on my DH side better not mind at all either. Or I will give them a reality check. I let my husband know that before the canceled scan last night and he had nothing to say because he knows I am right. I wont have my daughters feel like they are second class to a boy.... never ever. And his family does that. Well mostly FIL... but he is the FIL from hell I avoid him at all costs and my DH doesnt mind that.
I almost dont want a boy because I wont allow my son to be close to FIL from hell. NO he wont be going for hair cuts or on manly trips with him like his sisters son. No no no. My children do those things with me. I dont pawn my kids off to a monster who clearly thinks boys are superior. FYI i just remembered--- FIL has never ever not even once held DD. NOT ONCE. she is 27 months old. His excuse at the hospital "i dont hold them that small" what is his excuse now? he has none. He just wants grandsons. IDC tho because like i said he is a toxic man who can stay away. and DH agrees.