A Mom to 6 boys, I just miscarried:( To those who miscarried before. Ever felt like that might have been your DG?

To my surpise i got 2 Positive HPT 2 days in a row. Did some swaying but yesterday i went to the ER due to spotting,bleeding with clots,cramping they did blood test found out my levels were low and i am now miscarrying. Now i am thinking this might have been my baby girl after 6boys that my body just won't let me carry :( Ever felt like that might have been your DG?

Aww Hopeful, I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and saying prayers for peace. XX

 I am so sorry Hopeful..   FX for a healthy bean next month. Don't stress yourself out too much, please know it's not your fault because you have a DG..  I pray you get a BFP next month with a PINK bean!  Good luck Hopeful... i am thinking of you 

 Yes yes yes....:(....my last full term pregnancy was twins..but only one survived the whole pregnancy..I never met the other one..let alone found out the sex of it...HOWEVER...something told me girl from the moment I heard twins..I knew there was a boy but I felt there was a girl...and i only knew because gut feeling...and what gets me is we opted not to know the sex, but family did..and he was supposed to be a girl....I also recently had a MC right before this baby like literaly...and I keep wondering if it was my little girl:(...but..im trying not to wonder..or care anymore..im tired of being so sad when i truly am so blessed to have such wonderful kids already...

Oh hopeful I'm SO sorry!!!! Big hugs and yes, I felt that both my losses were boys..

Thanks Ladies. It's so painful just thinking this might have been a girl. But i remain hopeful.

HI I know exactly what your saying, my 1st attempt for a boy was last October and I got pregnant 1st time. Unfortunately I had a MMC Christmas week. It was so hard I really blamed myself for swaying and doing all these strange things to my body just to get a boy. I think this is natural - all along tho I did think that I wouldn't carrry it full term, i didn't even tell anyone I was pregnant as I wasn't confident (which I have never done before, i always tell people the day I find out). Also 1in 4 pregnancys end in miscarriage and I'd already had 3 great pregnancies so felt it would be my turn, which it was. It does get easier, my due date is in 3 weeks and I never thought for 1 minute that i wouldn't be pregnant again by the time it came round but here I am.

Don't blame yourself xx

Strawbell

 

I am so sorry, I miscarried 2-3 times and I strongly believe atleast 2 times it was a boy!! don't know how but its just my intuition!

So sorry about your loss  I love your name because I always try to stay hopeful and I think you do the same.  I think I have read that most misscarriages are boys.  Has anyone else read that?  In preterm babies the girls also have a greater chance of survival than boys.  It's kind of strange that in babies the girls are stronger and then 20 years later it is the boys with all the muscles.  And then women have longer lifespans on average than men.  I guess females are just stronger in a different way than males.  Keep trying and we will all be praying for your journey to have a happy PINK ending!!!

this is exactly how I feel. I've had 3 mc I now have 3 boys and one on the way and I mourn for the girls I couldn't carry to term. My thoughts and prayers go out to you!

I'm so sorry for your loss (((hugs)))

So sorry to hear this. You must be so disappointed. All the best XX