Just got my BFP!

So I finally conceived THANK GOD. And I'm very happy to just be pregnant. But now the GD has already made its up to the front of my mind. Yet I don't even know what it is. Im a mommy for 4 little boys whom l love dearly. But I just know its like i can already feel that this one is too. I try and every way possible to get it out of my mind and just say I'm not going to think about it till time to find out. But I broke down this morning crying.. over the gender of this baby. Its hard to talk to friends cause they have girls and I feel awful telling someone I feel depressed just by the thought of another boy. I know how people who never has had to go through this will think of me. Trying to get my husband to understand is like pulling teeth. I know he wants a girl mostly for me cause he knows how bad i want it. But he thinks me crying over it is taking it the max. I just really am looking for just advice on how to maybe keep my expectations low or how to prepare my self for the scan which is a ways off but i feel like I should start preparing now.

popo is right! it does happen. just try to enjoy your pregnancy and count your blessings. as soon as i got to a good place i heard "its a boy" after 7 times of "its another girl" like she said, it does happen! congrats.

Congratulations on your pregnancy!! During my last pregnancy I started from the beginning by telling myself that it was boy although I had a feeling that it was a girl. I washed all the adorable baby clothing and picked out a name. I felt confident walking into the ultrasound that I was prepared and okay to hear blue even though I was wishing with all my heart to hear pink. My one regret with that pregnancy was how much I wished away the first part of the pregnancy. That pregnancy was and will be my last pregnancy ever. I wish I had enjoyed it more than obsessing, but it was so hard at the time. I hope that the pregnancy goes quickly for you and you are able to make peace what whatever the baby is. Good luck! 

I try and look at my other boys and i do thank GOD often that they are healthy and happy! I try and think of all the things i can do with this baby weather it be a boy or a girl. I do my best to think of all the good. But it is just to hard at time. I have thought maybe not find out cause i know either way once i have the baby i will love it no matter what. But all to often I let these thing slip my mind and get me down.

YES it happens I have 5 DS s 4 w my DH and we r now expecting our DD I know the fear your feeling..when I first found out i was finally pg I sat in my car crying hysterically because I was sure she was a he and I couldn't bear the thought of the comments I'd hear..hang I there if it happened to me it certainly could for u :))

 Congratulations!  I am 9 weeks pregnant now and I feel the same way.  I feel depressed thinking that this could be a third boy, but then I feel awful thinking that.  Plus it doesn't help that people are always saying things like "Maybe it'll be a girl this time" or "Hoping for a girl?"  I feel like it just adds to it.  Why can't people just say "congrats!" ?

Thats howI feel I just want people to be happy Im having another not what it is or maybe. My in-laws are all this is a girl u won't make me believe different until its here. So now thats what I plan to do. Im gonna find out what it is but i do NOT plan on telling anyone. I know I can keep this in boy or girl. But it is hard to talk to friends and stuff and I feel I can be myself on here and express how i really feel with out certain comments. I told my in-laws last night I wasn't finding out and they first thing that come out of there mouth was WHY? cause you will be disappointed. No because I don't want to hear all the comments the "maybe next times" or I thought for sure it was a girl.. or shew 5 boys what are your going to do. I really can see me breaking peoples neck sometimes over this. Of course my main goal and main concern is a heathy baby.

Maybe GD is a way u are mentally preparing yourself to hear it's a boy but there's as much chance u will hear its a girl! Try and enjoy this time. Fingers crossed u will get your DD...Good Luck!!

Ugggg in-laws i wish I never ever told them this was my DD ...from day 1 all they'd say is stuff like oh an U/S r u gonnafind out which boy 6 this is an even after i had 2 us confirming DD at 2 separate places my fil told me..I'm not convinced... It wasn't until I finally shared my video they finally believed it more ..still adding well I didn't count the ribs don't girls have less ribs?? I wanted to scream!!! I thought they'd be excited about a granddaughter but instead they seem to purposely destroy my excitement :(

Thanks Mum of Macs! Thats the way my in-laws would be. When I did tell them I wasn't gonna find out. .. they way like why. I said cause of comments people make. They was all why cant people mind there own business. I was thinking take your own advice. I just wish i hadn't even told them i was preggers till i found out what it was. But i have made up my mind to find out but tell no one.