My dreams were correct. :(

Oh, my dear, I'm so sorry you didn't hear what you were hoping for, and I'm so sorry you're having to worry about a health issue. It sounds like that soft marker is one of those things that isn't that uncommon, and by the time he is born it will not be an issue. You do have precious boys, I must say! I know that everything people say sounds kind of trite right now.... but I do think that there is something special about boys and their Mums, you know? I hope you are able to feel a bit better day by day. I know how hard it is, and I am thinking about you..... big hugs to you and your darling boys...

 Oh, I am so sorry!  Not sorry that you are having a precoius, healthy son, but sorry that you will not have a daughter.  I know you're heartbroken and that the loss you feel is so hard to bear.  Lots of hugs & prayers for you!!!  

 Just saw the pics of your gorgeous boys!  Oh, my what a group of little heartbreakers!!!  They are truly cute as can be!

 

Love the hair styles!  I am all about some cute boy hair.  Funny, you told your ds that he could have a mohawk after school was out, I did that with my own ds!  He loved it!

I am sorry you did not hear girl.  I understand your heart break.  Please keep us posted on the little guys health and I will be praying for you and your family.  Hugs to you and your boys.

Sorry you didn't hear pink..when I became pg w DS no 5 I remember hoping an wishing for a DD but he was my fith DS and I can't tell you the guilt I felt being even slightly dissapointed with him.. Out of all my boys he is the biggest mommys boy ..all my boys are to a certain degree but Wyatt is just my biggest fan he calls me his luv luv tells me how beautiful I am everyday...and Wyatt was a oops guess your not sterile after cancer and I just should of been happy at the health of my DH but I couldn't help being upset he was not a she... It wasn't until I chose his name and was able to talk to him that I felt better...:)) hope all is well for you new little guy I'm sure he'll be loved unconditionally a long w your already handsome boys :)

 Hello,

I can understand how you feel....I have four boys and went through extreme GD with the last two.  I also understand how you feel going through this with your husband deployed.  My husband has been deployed three times and was gone for the pregnancy and birth of our second.  I know it doesn't mean much right now....but when your little guy is born he will fit so well with the others....just watching them all play together and grow together will be wonderful.  Even though I felt awful when I was pregnant, and even a few months after they were born, watching them interact with eachother and seeing how happy they are to be together gives me joy unlike anything else. Hang in there, having four boys is truly a blessing.....and having four healthy little ones is as well.  Also, if your husband seems to get irritated when you want to talk about how you feel don't be offended.  I was because my husband would get very angry with me, and then I realized there is really no way he would understand what I feel because he already had four boys to relate to.  With that and the military always playing a big part in our lives, his reaction was not what I expected and it surprised me.  From my experience, women tend to relate much better to what we feel when we experience GD :)

 

First off Congrats on your little man he looks so cute! I know how it feels times 6! I cried many many tears since boy #3 but when you hold that baby boy in your arms you will forget about it you would be like i wouldn't change this for the world. But then times goes by and the pain comes back to never having a girl and wanting one so bad . I am desperate to have a girl but am leaning towards just not even trying cause i know more than likely it will be another boy. I always asked myself when or if i ever will get over this and be at peace. * Hugs*

 And GO Figure.. I FINALLY get my free gender reading from Cheri and she tells me she thinks this baby is a girl..     I just started crying all over again.. I wish it would have said Boy.. at least that way it wouldn't have hurt so bad.  I would have rather have heard BOY and then had a girl.. not the other way around.

 Ugh...  I hate your Effing guts GD!!   Lol   

I hope this goes away soon..  

 Awwww :(  Sending cyber hugs (((((((hugs))))))))

 My old friend who is married to DHs friend and who is due a week after me had her scan about 2 weeks ago. They are in fact having a girl like I knew they would. I hate that everything seems so much more unfair right now. 

MunkyCrazy:

 Awwww :(  Sending cyber hugs (((((((hugs))))))))

 My old friend who is married to DHs friend and who is due a week after me had her scan about 2 weeks ago. They are in fact having a girl like I knew they would. I hate that everything seems so much more unfair right now. 

 

I hear you on that. THREE of my good friends are all pregnant with me, one due right after the other.. they are ALL having girls, except me. We had it all planned out that our daughters would all grown up together like we did.. but now I guess my sons will have plenty of girls to hang with.. .. haha 

Who knows?  maybe they will marry one of them and watch, they will have ALL girls..  that would be just my luck!  Lmao

It does suck the most when everyone around is getting the gender you want, without even trying..  

 

It does suck the most when everyone around is getting the gender you want, without even trying..

lol back at ya baby! maybe we could trade? you so easily got my dream family without even trying. do you want a slightly used 2 year old girl with an attitude problem? cause i still want that baby boy you have over there, he'll match good with Michael. hgs hun, it will get better.

 OMG dreaming i had no idea that you recently found out your having a boy! Im so sorry that you didnt hear girl. As im sure youve heard a dozen times already, i understand how that feels, i had that with DS2. Took about 3 months for me to get past it. I was so resentful. There was one time at walmart i was buying shoes for the boys and saw pink jelly shoes for baby girls and right there in walmart i started to cry. Its so tough to come to terms with the fact that the dream of a girl is gone. I resented everyone who had girls and talked bout girls. its so tough. I totally get it. But once he was born i love him so much. I still have the pang for a girl otherwise i wouldnt be here ttc a girl. Its not easy. HUGS

I am sorry you didn't hear girl. I am betting my LO who is also due in Nov is my 4th DD and my last chance for a son. Big HUGS for you.

DreamingofXX:

 It's another boy.

I can't believe this. I was so hoping this would have been my girl.  

No hope now, as this was my last chance.

I am so heartbroken. 

 

I haven't been on IG in a while but wanted to come and see your u/s results! I am so sorry you didn't hear girl...us moms of 3+ boys (or girls) deserve a chance at the other gender!! I will say I think it's so cool #3 and #4 are going to be so close in age, you know you'll fall in love with this little guy just like you did your 3rd (who is so stinkin cute btw!). I know if my #4 is another boy (which I totally expect) I will love him to pieces but be very sad I didn't hear pink, and that's okay. I was devastated hearing blue for #3 but he has been *almost* a complete cure for my GD....dh and I aren't anywhere near ttc but have already chosen a name for boy #4, and it has really grown on me and I can almost picture him in a family photo. :)))

You never know, this little guy may not be your last child.... if I had a dollar for everytime someone I know said they were DONE and then- boom, another one- I'd be pretty well off. ;)

 

 

Havebluwantp1nktoo:

DreamingofXX:

 It's another boy.

I can't believe this. I was so hoping this would have been my girl.  

No hope now, as this was my last chance.

I am so heartbroken. 

 

I haven't been on IG in a while but wanted to come and see your u/s results! I am so sorry you didn't hear girl...us moms of 3+ boys (or girls) deserve a chance at the other gender!! I will say I think it's so cool #3 and #4 are going to be so close in age, you know you'll fall in love with this little guy just like you did your 3rd (who is so stinkin cute btw!). I know if my #4 is another boy (which I totally expect) I will love him to pieces but be very sad I didn't hear pink, and that's okay. I was devastated hearing blue for #3 but he has been *almost* a complete cure for my GD....dh and I aren't anywhere near ttc but have already chosen a name for boy #4, and it has really grown on me and I can almost picture him in a family photo. :)))

You never know, this little guy may not be your last child.... if I had a dollar for everytime someone I know said they were DONE and then- boom, another one- I'd be pretty well off. ;)

 

Thank you..  yeah, I was wondering about you. I hadn't seen you on here for a bit.   It still hurts everyday but at least it don't hurt as bad as it did that first few days.. I still cry... I cried this morning. 

It will get better though. It has too, right?   We have named him but I have not done any shopping or gotten anything for him. I am not ready for that. 

I have to go to my friends baby shower in August (she is having a girl)  and I don't know how I am going to take it. I DO NOT want to go, but at the same time.. it's not HER fault she had a girl. She is 33 yrs old and this is her first baby, it was a result of a "fling"..  She is going to be a single mom and I know I just have to be supprtive for her. 

I was with my other friend yesterday at the lake and she has a 7 wk old daughter.. I held her and kissed her, and I did do better than I thought I would. I didn't cry at least!!   

I hope and pray you get your little girl..  I can HONESTLY say the ONLY women who I want to get their DG's .. is on this website!!   How awful is that!!   lol    So evil...  

My other friend just found out she is pregnant by surprise, and she already has a boy and girl and when i asked her what she was hopin for.. she said GIRL of course.. so I have my fingers and toes crossed that she gets another boy!    Ugh, I am so mean!!!   

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