Going Crazy...

 Vets, kudos to you on the waiting for HPT, im sooo not that patient lol. It sounds like this could be your month! Are you swaying boy? When is your AF due?

 

Hearts*N*Flowers:

 Vets, kudos to you on the waiting for HPT, im sooo not that patient lol. It sounds like this could be your month! Are you swaying boy? When is your AF due?

Ohhh I hope so!! Thanks!!  I have to say though, I am the LEAST patient person! LOL It was just hard last year testing almost every day leading up to AF and getting that BFN every single time. With both my girls I got PG almost immediately so going 6 months and having no results was a little...okay, A LOT...discouraging. Since I'm just getting started again I'm trying not to let myself get to that place all over again, I know all the stress can and will only make it worse. But anyway, I'm swaying boy, but after going through some pretty bad GD with DD2, I'm okay now if our third little one is a baby girl. I think, like the rest of us, I just want a healthy baby and just eager to complete our little family already. AF is due next week so hopefully she doesn't rear her ugly head and I get to test in 2 weeks!

I know you said you were kind of hoping you wouldn't get a BFP this month because of the diet & all the swaying factors you hadn't considered, are you going to try next month if you get a BFN this month? I felt like that when I first started last year, there's just so much info out there, I think I tried to do it ALL last year and that may have been one of the reasons we didn't get PG. This time around I made a plan of the things that I felt comfortable with and I'm sticking with it. It's mostly diet and altering my PH as much as possible, without overdoing it, hopefully it works!

Anyhow, FX for the both of us!

 Yes i will try next month, i have already changed my diet and added more swaying factors to my daily life lol in preparation for a BFN then im on track for next cycle. I want to be able to say that i tried the best i could for a girl and if i still get a boy then it was meant to be.  Your right, the stress is not good either. Jeez you would think that with technology now they could develop a test that detects implantation! Wouldnt that be fab??!!! 

 Yes i will try next month, i have already changed my diet and added more swaying factors to my daily life lol in preparation for a BFN then im on track for next cycle. I want to be able to say that i tried the best i could for a girl and if i still get a boy then it was meant to be.  Your right, the stress is not good either. Jeez you would think that with technology now they could develop a test that detects implantation! Wouldnt that be fab??!!! 

Hearts*N*Flowers:

 Yes i will try next month, i have already changed my diet and added more swaying factors to my daily life lol in preparation for a BFN then im on track for next cycle. I want to be able to say that i tried the best i could for a girl and if i still get a boy then it was meant to be.  Your right, the stress is not good either. Jeez you would think that with technology now they could develop a test that detects implantation! Wouldnt that be fab??!!! 

No kidding! LOL I keep feeling little twinges on my left side but they happen so often and are so sporadic I'm not quite sure what they could be or mean. I never had implantation bleeding with either of my girls, my BBT hasn't changed much, and my cervix stays high and soft until a day before AF so I don't have much to assume either way. The only thing that was a sure sign with my 2 previous pregnancies were the leg cramps. With DD2 we didn't know we were expecting until I started getting leg cramps while on vacation with my family. Since I had them with DD1, when we got back I went to my Dr and through a blood test he confirmed the pregnancy. It's funny, as much as I hated those cramps, I can't wait to feel them again! LOL

Ive never had implantation bleeding either. leg cramps is such a unique symptom in early pregnancy, ive never heard of that before. Im 9dpo now, and arguing with myself not to go get ept lol. I kinda want to take test with  Dh so that if its pos we have that reaction together, but on the other hand i just want to test lol. How many dpo are you?

 

I get it, I tested alone last year every time but mainly because I didn't want DH to see my look of disappointment if tests came back negative. I cried a number of times so it's probably a good thing he wasn't there with me. He's on board with all the swaying, but he'd tell me he wished I didn't get too stressed over it, and I knew he was right, it was just hard getting my hopes up each time and then seeing that BFN every month. But anyway, I'm only 7dpo, I keep reminding myself every time I feel something different that it's too early to test and maybe even to get any symptoms to get my mind off of it, but it's a little harder than I thought it'd be LOL

 i know eh, mind totally plays tricks on us. it could me mind over matter causing symptoms or genuine prego, lol, we never know til 2ww is over! i take consolation that im halfway thru 2ww lol. these days go sooo slow!! baby dust to both of us!

 ok girls, random q...do more of you test alone and then tell hubby? or test together?

I tested alone, i was a poas addict when ttc & hubby would only moan at how many i was doing lol only told him about them all after getting bfp

 i kinda am too, but with my second son i found out from poas and when i told him i felt like it was anticlimatic compared to when we found out together with our first son. Its tough cuz i soooo want to just go poas but i also want to wait for him. Im 10 dpo now. How many are you?

Well, it turns out that I O'ed later than I expected with my crazy temp chart (but the second half after the late O has been completely normal).  I did poas a few days ago, still thinking that I must have O'ed on cd 15 as usual since that's when my cervix was doing the right things.  Negative then.  So, this morning, 10 dpo by the temp chart (O on cd 18), and when I would normally expect af to come if O was on time (which it seems it wasn't), I decided to go ahead and test.  BFP!  Faint line, but definitely there - no squinting required to see it.  I'm going to test again on Monday just to make sure since aside from a little nausea here and there (which I had been attributing to diet changes due to cheating in the 2ww) I am not really feeling pregnant.  I always poas alone and tell DH if it's positive.  I'm still rather worried since we dtd a couple extra times thinking that we were past O, and had cheated on the diet a bit the day or two before cd 18.  However, we had been on the diet and supplements for the full 6 weeks (very little cheating then), did ions, and the later O actually put us more in girl moon stuff, so I'm hoping that our messed-up-timing sway might still have swayed a bit.

Hearts, we're both 10 dpo - you should test, we could be due at the same time!

 jedie, i did a hpt last nite, cheap version mind you, but BFN. Then this morning saw AF on tp when going to washroom. Not prego for me this cycle..thats ok tho, gives me time to get better at this insane diet and check moon again. Congrats again on BFP, im so excited for you! I hope also that you get the girl you want! Pink Baby dust!! you must hang around and keep us posted!! when would your due date be?

Jedie, congrats on your BFP!!

Hearts, sorry AF made her appearance I'm still days away from getting mine, but I have a feeling she'll be here so I've been prepping for our July attempt already. I ordered new box of digital OPKs last night and purchased some Soy Isoflavones the day before to use before O. FX & here's hoping we'll have better luck next month!