did i ruin my boy sway?

So i had been using a first response opk: CD12 was negative, CD13 the line was dark but not as dark as the control line and then the next 2 tests that day got lighter. CD14 line in the morning was darker again so I decided to get the clear blue smiley face opk took the test that afternoon and it was positive so thinking i was likely positive earler but getting a poor reading with the other tests we dtd at 930 pm. I wish i would have got the smiley face tests to begin with then there would be no confusion. CD15 took another opk and it was positive still so thinking that i may not have ovulated we did it again that afternoon @4pm which was today. Today I have had pain in my lower left side which has got worse in the last few hours so I am thinking this is ovulation pain and freaking out because wont there just be female sperm in there waiting for the egg if I ovulate now? Do we need to dtd again? Sorry so long but swaying is really confusing

No it sounds like it'll be just fine!! I had two attempts this y le due to two lh surges. I was using the smilies and got them both times. There's ladies on out TTC boy hread who DTD twice for better chance of a BFP. Try and remember that male and female sperm live the same and come out in mostly equal numbers.. So the males won't have just died off.. It sounds like you were right on top of O, which is muc better than DTD after O!! Also, we're you doing diet and was your ph high? Did you bsf? You may consider just to keep your ph up for a day or so.. If your ph was high ad your diet has been right then I bet you had way more make sperm survive!! Try and relax because timing is least important for a reason!!

I have cut out most dairy, beginning with af i started drinking baking soda water 2 times a day, taking evening primrose oil, drinking v8 juice. I have been taking frolic acid for 3 months. I did a baking soda doiche one hour before we dtd both times. DH had a cold shower right before and drank an energy drink 45 minutes before, I hope we were successful I am not feeling the pain anymore today. When do you think I actually ovulated then? Should I do baking soda finger today?

I suspect you o'd cd 15, which makes your timing pretty good!

...O PAIN can be before during or after....mine happens after due to the fluid from the egg rupturing and releasing....i get bloated and sometimes gassy but usually just cramping n bloated.....my guess is you were cramping after......also some women have + even smileys bc the lh is still high...lh doeant decrease until O happens and even then it can be another 2-3 days if it is slow to decrease