Im glad my post didnt offend you lol.
I am getting over the boy after girl shock lol. At least my girl will be "the girl" and we can have our special girl time etc!
I really am scared of the "unknown" with a boy lol. I dont have the greatest examples in my family....they scare me lol
I know not all boys are the same (thankfully!!!!)
My cousins kids almost prevented me from having kids at all lol....terrors! Even the girls lol One of the girls is a total snob "think mean girls" and she has been that way since two (8 now) .... I go out of my way to avoid her....yes she is THAT bad.
The "boys" (twins, 6) have finally mellowed out a bit but due to some less then stellar parenting, they were very destructive and would beat up an old lady for fun....(not in a mean way, but just too rough)
I have learned how NOT to parent children by wathcing my family! Sounds harsh but they (girls too) rule the domain no matter where they are. the "parents" dont even bother to watch them when at family parties with the attitude "someone else will handle it" ...apparently, family aprties mean free babysitting? ugh lol.
So far I have been the polar opposite, hopefully my kids will be well mannered and respectful. Please please pleas lol
I can say that two of the girls are very well behaved, as is 1 of the 4 boys. But omg how the others scare the poop out of me!
My DH and I would leave with headaches and stop for condoms after a birthday party before we had our daughter HAHAHAHA